i dont think i will ever find any one
all my friends have boyfriends.
2006-07-24 14:49:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey hun. I see some major problems with you self esteem here. First off, you may be a bit overweight....so WHAT!!!! You are who you are, if you are dangerously overweight than i suggest you start a daily excercise program but NEVER think you are less of a person just because you are overweight. Second, 11 is very young to be thinking about boyfriends. You'll probably skip over that part like you didn't read it but it's true. Right now you are just figuring out who you are and all guys should be to you is just friends. Some of the best relationships start out as friendships...you just remember that! Lastly, i'll leave you with a tip of advice when you are old enough to date....guys like girls that are confident about who they are....EVEN if they think they are overweight! ;) Good luck
2006-07-24 15:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Ya know what. Some of the nicest people I know are heavier. Don't worry so much about getting a boyfriend and especially at your age. They won't run away, you have time to find one. Or better yet, let him find you. Because your worth finding kiddo!!!
If your concerened about your weight for yourself then let's do something about that. I would help you by being your online buddy. I am a Mom and I would like to lose weight too. Do yourself a favor and don't worry about how you look to a boy worry more about how you feel about yourself. Trust me, in the long run a great boy will like you more for you than a skinney fake you. Wish you lots of luck.
2006-07-24 21:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirlup64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way so dont worry about it, u will get a boyfriend, there is always someone out there, i know u hear this all the time but it is the truth, i was unpopular and i was not in style, so dont worry, last school year i had 3 guys ask me out and 2 where hot, so dont worry about it really ur only 11, so relax and give it some time and have fun dating but be safe about it, good luck
2006-07-24 21:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by vampire girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a baby. I think you can wait a while, boyfriends and girlfriends are not the end all be all of your purpose here on this planet. While your still young i'll leave you with this advice: study hard, and be focused, keep your body and mind healthy, you've got to prepare yourself for life because you have to be ready to give the best that you got.
2006-07-24 21:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by HocusPocus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings and desires to have a boyfriend but 11 is young. You have plenty of time for that. You are at a point in you life where you are maturing and it is natural for you to pack on a few extra pounds if you have a predisposition to do so anyway. Do you best to live and eat healthy, drink LOTS of water, get plenty of sleep and get plenty of excercise. Find activities that you anjoy and that make you happy and when a girl is happy with herself, she is more confident. Confidence attracts people....all people not just boyz....but YES even boys are attracted to confidence. Hang in there. And dont rush things.......guys R a hassle anyway....lol......ENJOY YOUR LIFE
2006-07-24 21:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by EyeOnU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about lack of a boyfriend just yet. And if you're that concerned, and your mom agrees that you're overweight, maybe she'll help you maintain a healthy diet. And you yourself can become more active. Between diet and activity, boys will begin to notice you!
Good luck :)
2006-07-24 21:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure u will i had an overweight friend and she got a boyfriend but it was n 7th grade but just love urself 4 who u r and sum other guys will like u for that i mean look at monique shes got a great lookin husband who loves her even tho shes big
2006-07-24 21:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will have a boyfriend, just because your over weight now doe's not mean you'll always be even if you are you still will be beautiful.
2006-07-24 21:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by lkp27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT NOW YOUR A LITTLE YOUNG!!BUT YES YOU WILL .IM OVERWEIGHT TOO IM ON A DATING LINE FOR FAT CHICS AND IM TALKING TO 3 NICE GUYS SO IT COULD HAPPEN JUST WAIT TIL YOUR OLDER.
2006-07-24 21:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by TRACY N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋