why do guys start acting different after you've been physically intimate with them?

Answer 1

because most guys have very littel interest in females outside of that context. sad, but true. think about it.....do most guys like to do what you like to do with your girlfriends? no. what could they possibly want from you other than sex? marriage? probably not.

a piece of advice---just say no. and see how they respond. just keep saying no. you will find that they act differently then, too.

Answer 2

Recently I have decided to wait until I am married before I ever have sex again. My decision comes from alot of different reasons, the first one being that I have given my life to God and because of the love I receive from him, I find that I want to do what he wants me to do, after all it is the Lord that is in control of it all. I have been in MANY relationships in the past, and have had physical relationships throughout this time. All I know is that I am not with any of these men now, and when I look back I realize that the only benefit of being physical was that in that moment, I felt loved, or I was just having a good time. But in the end, it did not bring me closer to them, it just made me more attached and them less attached. If you feel like you may have made a mistake, than trust that feeling, and make a note not to do it again. Abstaining is turning out to be a great way for me to find out which guy is after me just for the sake of getting some, and which ones consider me to be something that they want to invest time in and maybe one day get married. I am in my late twenties, and this is good for me because I am looking to settle down. If you are trying to find someone who really cares for YOU, adopting the decision to wait until you get married is an EXCELLENT way to find out who is the real deal. It's never to late to turn from your sin and ask for God's forgiveness, and he will bless you with the right man when he thinks it is time.

Answer 3

Because they got to open the mystery gift early, and now that's its all over,cause the hard part is over with, now it's time for him to brag to friends and treat you like crap until he's ready to go for it again, don't give him the time of day. If he starts telling people your intimate details, then get even. Tell them that he wanted your finger up his butt, or he tried on one of your nighties and high heels and acted like a crazy beverly hills hooker on crack.

Answer 4

Guys changed after becoming intimate and girls should find ways to make them stick to the relationship by making them aware that bonding is important.

Answer 5

Do you set it up that way? Do you always hook up with guys on the premise of sex? Make sure you aren't being a floozy (If you're not then my apologies) and have good intentions with the guy like being his girlfriend instead of a booty call.

Answer 6

Because NOW they know whether your worth the attention (time) it would take to get you to "be intimate" again.... just a guess.

Answer 7

It's either because you gave him all he wanted or because now he thinks since you gave it to him he can stop being Mr. Nice guy cause he knows you give it to him when he wants it but all boys aren't like that

Answer 8

The same reason girls look in the mirror afterward and remark, "Gee, I don't look any different."

Answer 9

The guys are more attracted and somewhat more connected to you.

Answer 10

it sounds like you are with the wrong guys and you are with them for the wrong reasons