Is it wrong for a 18 year old to be in love with a 14 year old?

Answer 1

As long as you don't act on it.

Answer 2

No i don't think that it is wrong i think it is wrong 4 an 18 year old to go out with a 14 year old, but if it is true love then i have no problem with u going out with this 14 year old. does that answer your question?

Answer 3

Not when the 14 year old is 18 and the 18 year old is 22... so wait 4 years before you take action unless you want the cops to take action towards you.

Answer 4

as long as their no physical love involved no.
in todays day and age, people think getting married at 21 is too early, back in the day, not even 50 years ago, people were married at 15 years old! and still are in other countries every single day. to men and womean older then them, by many more years.

The thing is with that, they are virgins until they are married. We dont do that here it seems. In other countries they dont have a choice if they watn to get married or not, so its "okay".

Here, everyone has a choice.

Girls are too young at 14 to decide if they are in love or not. and they are definantly too young to decide if they want sex.
having sex at such a young age, is emotionally draining to a young girl. it could cause irrepairable harm.

IT could effect her school, her family and her personal life forever. Too many young girls are even getting pregnant at that age. It's really sad. But a young girl, with a baby, does not have a chance to raise up in this world, as much as woman 21 years or older, with no children.

Thats why it's illegal for someone your age to be with someone her age.

So, no it's not wrong to love her, but if you care, you know what NOT to do.

Answer 5

no. as long as you don't do anything to consummate this love with the 14 year old until said 14 year old is over 18

Answer 6

My best friend is almost 15 and she's dating an 18 year old. It's a very touchy subject and illegal. It's almost okay with my friend because she is very mature and has high moral standards. If, on the other hand, she was gettin the hanky-panky: I wouldn't be okay with it at all.

Try to avoid "love" if you can. I'm sure that you'll find that lust preaches itself as love when it very much not so.

Answer 7

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 18, we have been dating for over 6 months. It's not wrong but just watch what you do. Sex is a BIG no no. Unless you're willing to get arrested.

Answer 8

wrong and illegal...when the 14 yr old is 20 and the 18 yr old is 24 then it would be appropriate

Answer 9

Is is wrong to be in love? NO. Is it illegal to have a relationship? YES! Unless of course you live in the state of Alabama where a girl can consent at the age of 12. Sickos - and they wont even vote in a state Lottery because it is against the bible. Geesshhh!!

Answer 10

At your ages, yes it is. You are legally an adult. She is a child and is not at the age of consent. If you act on these impulses, you can go to jail if her parents decide to press charges on you.

Also, if you really "love" this girl, you would put her best interests in mind. She needs to be a young girl and not get into complicated relationships with grown men. If you attempt to have any kind of sexual contact with her, you can really damage her emotionally and cause her to have serious problems with relationships in the future.

Stick with girls closer to your age. It will be better for you in the long run to learn how to interact with your age group and it will be better for her to hang on to her innocence.

Answer 11

you cant help who you love but you can help your actions...the 14 year old is too young for the 18 year old...so just hold off...you dont wanna go to jail for a "maybe" relationship...