hurt me so bad. How do you even try to move on from that when you feel like your whole world has crumbled at your feet?
2006-07-24 14:32:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you say that it makes me even as an out sider looking in feel bad for u in your situation. I suggest you take a few days to mope and cry it out then get the searching for your soul mate because there is someone out there for you
2006-07-24 14:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by phillyhottie000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time. And don't give up. I know guys are not suppose to cry but it does help. Tears are soap for the soul. Just hang in there one day you will wake up and it wont hurt as much as it did the day before. And go out and do things keep yourself busy with life. Do work at a place like an animal shelter or a hospital.
2006-07-24 14:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she will not talk about it and there is no resolution to have....the only way you are going to move on is over time. You will find yourself feeling down and out and lost but over time you will learn to love again and move on. And you will learn more about yourself believe it or not. It happens to a lot of people so don't think you are the only one and whatever you do don't think it was your fault and try not to carry any bitter feelings into your next relationship. Things will get better, I promise you.
2006-07-24 14:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by D-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody knows what it feels like to have a broken heart. As pathetic as it sounds...I counted I was heart broken 14 times! My heart is very wounded to this day. But thanks to my friends and even strangers on Yahoo helped me open my eyes. Honey...what you need to do, is hang out with ur SINGLE friends and meet new people. Maybe get a new look or try something new with urslef..I know what ur thinking "Im too heart-broken to go anywhere or do anything.: YES! i HAVE FELT LIKe that before...but the feeling is NOT eternal! Time DOES heal! At times it takes months...at times it takes YEARS...but u can make it. Just try not to think about it so much! I know it's hard! TRUST ME....I know! I havent been able to get COMPLETELY over a guy for more than 4 years...but I know one day I will get over him. And u will too get over this girl!
2006-07-24 14:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Aaron,
I'm Mrs.Advice
You should try to do stuff you enjoy, stop sitting around the house feeling bad. If you like fishing go fishing, just for example. There are plenty of other women out there. Just remember to be happy, and dont forget to smile.
~Mrs.Advice
2006-07-24 14:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.advice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay strong kid it will get better i promise. cut your loses and chalk it up to experience. Focus on other things like sports, work, and school. Your world hasnt crumbled it just got a little shaken up, thats all. Don't walk away scared from this mess, you will meet someone who is right for you. Good luck and keep heart man.
2006-07-24 14:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello...life is sometimes unfair. we loved and yet we are abandoned. it is undeniable indeed that life has no guarantees. there are things that simply are not meant to be. i know you are hurt, and it seems that its impossible to move onwards. but you can...and you have to..not only because you owe it your self but because its not the end of the world. there are many people around you who expected you to be happy always. they dont want you to discontinue dreaming. world has no sorrow that heaven cant heal. just learn the lessons painful as they are and move on. i know God prepare far better girlfriend for you..someone you will never regrets to live with. move on. life is beautiful despite the tough times
2006-07-24 14:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by ladyheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there.
First, hang out with your friends and family. Do not talk about her.
Start play video, soccer, Watch American football with your guy friends, Get drunk, party,
Need I say more.
Then start dating again which is very crucial in your life.
2006-07-24 14:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god i dont know cause i just went through a breakup today and i just want to die it hurts so bad.. one thing is for sure given enough time it will get easier but if you truly loved her as i did him you will never get over her just as i will never forget about him no matter how hard i try...love hurts and breakups hurt even worse..hang in there youll be ok just as i will be...
2006-07-24 14:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn to God and for strength and try focusing on something else..all you need is God and time :) hope everything works out for you! take care.
2006-07-24 14:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋