i have a boyfriend who is very jealous even with my guy cousins. he even accused my bestfriend as a lesbian. he dont want me to wear sexy clothes. no guy friends are allowed. he accused every guy close to me that they like me. when i gave him up one time, he acted violently. he told me that he will kill himself if i will leave him and that no one can get me away from him. OVER HIS DEAD BODY...what is the real score? does he love me? what are the motivating or controlling factors why he acted this way? im confused....
2006-07-24 14:30:14 · 5 answers · asked by ladyheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run, do not walk, RUN to get away from the guy. It's not normal, it's not love, it's not caring, he is abusive, he is controlling, and he'll hurt you as sure as God made little green apples. It would be very wise for you to tell your parents or the authorities when you tell him.
The motivating or controlling factors are that he was abused as a child in some way or another, he does not feel at all good about himself and he has anger control problems.
2006-07-24 14:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does have some issues. Sit down one on one with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about his reactions to other guys/family/female friends. Tell him that your into him 100% and he has no reason to be doing what he does. Maybe if he could see that a little better and how he is making you feel he would feel some what at ease and maybe back off a bit. Let him know that it's scaring you in a big kind of way and his threats over his dead body are not going to make you stay but drive you further away. I hope I'm being a help.
2006-07-24 21:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he needs help. You should sit him down and tell him how you feel and tell him that you think he should go to anger management because he is scaring you. If he loves you he will do it. If he gets angry it's time to get rid of him and get authorities involved just in case he tries to hurt you.
2006-07-24 21:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not love. He needs to get some help before he hurts someone. Keep yourself safe. Love protects. Love does not threaten the other.
2006-07-24 21:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by cathyhewed1946 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm thats a lil weird....like not to be mean but is this guy a lil woo hoo? if hes like threatening to kill himself and things like that you should get adult help cuz thats not right....even if he doesnt mean it u could be putting yourself in danger...and what happens when u wanna break up?...tell someone..cuz thats not right
2006-07-24 21:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋