i've splitted up with my girlfriend a week ago, she's lovely in all ways but i was dissapointed when she went out with a guy living in the same building with the next day after our fallout. she called yersteday, we chat and she started saying she doesn't like him, he's not her type and he's a mong and stuff, she's coming for a visit 2morrow. but i can't help feeling alone these days.
2006-07-24 14:12:54 · 30 answers · asked by tender-boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by not being lonley
2006-07-24 14:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very normal feeling under your circumstance. If we get our feelings hurt we have that feeling of loneliness and it's hard to beat. The best thing to ease the pain is to keep very busy. The more time you have to dwell on it the worse it is going to hurt. There is no cure for it but keeping busy is the healthiest way to deal with it. Time heals all eventually but sometimes it takes a long time.
Be careful when she comes back and don't let her walk in and out your door as she pleases. You are not a revolving door. Also, when she comes back talk about it. Maybe she realized she hs made a mistake. People do make mistakes.
Good luck .
2006-07-24 14:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there, I've been reading your answers and i must say you got alot of good responces. I'm going through the same exact thing. my loneliness told me to keep him as a friend, that's not working it's only making things even more complicated. or should i say confusion.when a person lets u go then leave don't look back and i say that from what i experience why should u or (we) allow ourselves to b second choice why should it take them to go elsewhere to see that the grass wasn't greener to realize u or (we) was the right one
do they deserve a second chance to enter into our lives we fall in love again until the next person they think is hot to try them as well because they know we will come back i say hell no! we are to good for that and deserve better start reading these answers and like someone responded earlier answer some of them urself i find that it takes ur mind off of u and on to someone else it helps
2006-07-24 14:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by unpredictable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ill tell you these fromwhat ive seen. Being lonley most especially in your situation is normal but seriously you are the one who's making yourself lonely. Don't dwell on the fact that she's gone. Its known to you now that she doesnt love you or isnt ready for a serious relationship.
What ill advice sincerely is that you make yourself happy by going out, forgetting the fact that she isnt there anymore and also making good use of any opportunity of fun that is available to.
The main thing is that you have fun and accept that what has happeneda ny there is little or notin that you can do than to have fun!
2006-07-24 14:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try to find a girl who knows what she wants, with what she wants being YOU!
If you get back with this girl how secure are you going to feel, and how will you know she's not calling up this other guy telling him you're a mong?
If you feel alone even when you are with someone you shouldn't be with them. The best cure for loneliness I can offer is ice cream and friends, either real ones or the TV show .
2006-07-24 15:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can avoid lonelyness in many of ways. U can go on the phone chat in ur area and u can keep urself busy and u definatley gonna have 2 keep ur mind off of her cuz that's what's gonna really keep u lonely. I'm a loner so I'm use 2 being by myself, but 1nce in a blue moon I get lonely not that often.
2006-07-24 14:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by shortyb5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She coming over because after she left you, went with this other guy, realised he wasn't up 2 scratch and she has decided to go bk to the gd thing that she had. i know its hard to do, trust me, i've been where u have been! Don't give her what she wants, she'll probably wana talk about it and say that it was a mistake, blah blah blah. Then she will probably want a hug, or a kiss, DO NOT GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS! she doesnt want to give you what you want, why should you give her what she wants?!? Trust me. go out, with your friends, do things you did before you met her, try doing other things that fill your mind with excitement because if you really think about it, she may be lovely, but she gave you that excitement, that feeling... it will get better, it wont take long either.
2006-07-24 14:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a park, look at nature. Breathe in the air. Find someone who looks lonely and say hi. Things fall apart so other things can come together. Don't worry about it. Good luck!
2006-07-24 14:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer some questions here, read a book, watch T.V., talk to your parental forces. Tomorrow is only a day away. The sun will come up tomorrow.
2006-07-24 14:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abt ur ex... dunno only you would know what to do cos of whatever circumstances caused the breakup. She could b using you until the next guy comes along or she could've genuinely made a mistake...do stuff for yourself now.. go gym, play paintball, read,hang with mates,things you'll never think of doing, just don't be alone. Be unavalaible to her for a week..if she still baying at ur door..let her in.
2006-07-24 15:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by hucks_127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you from experience that being alone beats the heck out of being lonely with someone. dont be in a realationship just because your lonely. my best friend is getting back with her ex that treated her like crap just to not be alone and she is making the biggest mistake of her life...so do you want to learn the hard way or use your head because following your heart just gets you in so much trouble trust me i know from experience...
2006-07-24 14:19:04 · answer #11 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋