I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm kinda uneasy about it, I mean there's alot that can happen, but I love him enough and I'm ready for it
2006-07-24 14:08:21 · 16 answers · asked by Someone... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm only 15....
2006-07-24 14:14:01 · update #1
15 year olds are usally ready for sex but not for a baby. So if you two do engage, ALWAYS use a condom.
2006-07-24 15:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by blakefabian2003 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It'll make things a million times more complicated with your boyfriend. Regardless of how much you think you love him teenage relationships don't always last forever. Sex (or physical intimacy in general) creates an intense emotional bond. Even if you don't get pregnant or get an STD, you'll be deeply involved with someone and if you break up with him, it'll be worse than if you had never slept with him. When you're still with him you may be more willing to forgive him of his errors simply because you're sleeping with him. Re-examine why you think sex is a good idea and remember that even if kids and STDs are an impossibility the emotional attachment that sex creates can't be protected against and may break your heart. Sex is wonderful and powerful but very destructive. If you're uneasy, wait. Sex shouldn't be stressful.
2006-07-24 16:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its awesome that you are holding your ground! Good for you! And yes it is very normal, everyone goes at their own pace. And no it doesn't show that you are scared. Having sex for the first time is a big deal. Waiting is good... better safe than sorry! Maybe its because he is pressuring you and keeps asking you, that would make me want to not have sex with my boyfriend if he did that!
2016-03-27 05:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look aparintly ur not ready u might think ur ready (im not talking about age) but u might not be i mean sure u love ur boyfriend and WANT to have sex but that doesnt mean ur 100% ready
i have this rule in life dont do anything that u hasitate about when u ask urself if u should do it or not
i mean i do break that rule sometimes but i wouldnt on something like that excpecialy if its ur first time
just think about it
ok?
do what makes u feel most comftrouble
listen to ur heart not to anybody else and not even to me cuz i personily am not sitting inside ur heart and knowing each feeling u have so u might be ready
just follow ur instinks thats always right
even tho ppl can diny it a lot of times
(dont do anything u will regret)=)
~hope i helped ♥
2006-07-24 14:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex + boyfriend = Responsibility
If you are ready, ask your self again. The baby, the in-laws, the future. I mean if he's really love you, for sure he would asked you to marry him and prepared for the adventure for you both. Remember life is not always about sex, though the mind will always think about it. Clear your mind and pray for the best.
2006-07-24 14:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by blazerjohn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all make sure that he is ready for it too.
Cause sometimes when one is ready the other isn't.
And either way if you guys are ready for it.
Remember this ... R u ready to take that risk of getting pregnate or getting a disease or something happening?
If not then your best bet is not to do it either way if you both think your ready and old enough to do it.
It is wrong and imoral if you do it out of marriage.
It is better to be marriade first!! Then you dont have to worry about the risk of getting pregnate cause if it happens then its ok. Cause you already are marriade.
To often when you have sex you end up seperating.
and why waste that for something so temporary.
Just a night of pleasure but a life time of regret.
Read in Thessalonians 4:3 in the bible it reads,
It is God's will that we be sanctified(pure) that we should avoid sexual imorality, That each one of us should learn to control his or her own body, In a way that is holy and honorable. (to the Lord).
Think before doing this... You can love without making love. It's possible!! I know society pushes that you have to.
To let the other person know you care and share something with them. But that isn't the case. If a guy wants more then the heart and more then just you...
then all he wants is a one night stay. and give you a life time regret!
Think before doing this.. even if you two are ready.
2006-07-24 14:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
People always say they are ready for it, I did the same thing long ago. One question. You say your ready for sex, would you also be ready for a baby? If you answered "yes" then you are ready. If you answered "no" maybe you should think about it some more.
2006-07-24 14:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants you, he'll ask you to marry him unless either of you is underage or he wants to focus on college. Naturism between 2 can be risky if you love each other and are tempted by each other's bodies, so if you don't normally see each other naked, then try to avoid it. Let him know how you feel and don't let him judge you on it harshly. Don't go all the way and you won't have to worry about kids yet. Just make sure he's not totally naked and that should help if you can't avoid it.
2006-07-24 14:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by philhanan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex + boyfriend = parenthood
Are you ready for that?
One of those "little guys" breaks from the pack, causing morning sickness, diapers and motherhood.
2006-07-24 14:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by n9wff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your uneasy about it than you are not ready
2006-07-24 14:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋