ok well there is this other guy i like but the only problem is he has a weight problem he is over weight but he is very kind,nice and respect me better than my boyfriend...even though im not "PHYSICALLY" attracted to him should i go for him or im just better off looking for somone else?
2006-07-24 14:07:30 · 20 answers · asked by becca . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it always counts but isn't all that counts personality is waaaaaaaay more important and guys with good personalities are hard to find, the you found one a diamond in the rock, you better get him before someone else dose
2006-07-24 14:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by princess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, physical attraction doesn't always count. It plays a part in it, but the thing that matters the most is the person on the inside, not the outside. If you're attracted to his personality, and want to give him a chance, then do it. Don't be shallow about it. However...do it sometime AFTER you break up with your current boyfriend. But if you feel like his appearance is going to be a problem for you, or you care what everyone else will think, then don't. All up to how you feel. ;)
2006-07-24 14:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it sounds like your boyfriend is physically attractive, then. Is your boyfriend treating you like dirt? Using you maybe? I think if physical attraction does it for you, then move on. And I say that because I have a feeling that the overweight guy will end up getting hurt, just by the way you phrased your question. I guess another important question is whether or not this overweight guy knows you have a boyfriend. What have you told him about this? Whatever you put more of a value on is what you'll get in return. If your b/f is attractive but treats you like trash, then he always will....and he will cheat on you, if he hasn't already.
2006-07-24 14:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by spacedog1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 older sons. (and three under 7) they are all really nice guys. the oldest is thin and married, but always had girlfriends because he is so nice to girls, my second is drop dead gorgeous, buff and built like Arnold Schwarts.... er guy, but very shy and doesnt think any girls will like him and my 16 year old is a big chubby guy, good looking too, and has a ton of girlfriends becasue he is soooo sweet. I say go for personality, some guys once they have a girl show them some attention will start to try to shape up to look better, see how it goes.
2006-07-24 14:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you looking at all? You have a boyfriend...if you aren't happy with him, then end it...don't relationship hop from one guy to another, always looking for something better..that's very unkewl and what goes around comes around...you may find someone you really dig, and he'll constantly be scoping out other chicks and dump you for one he thinks is better...
If you are interested in the heavyset guy, then get to know him AFTER you've ended your relationship with your current guy...but you'll do better by not actively looking, and just living life and paying attention...less likely to settle, just to be with someone...
2006-07-24 14:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i guess you are the only one that can make that choice but i can give you my opinion. Do you like him? Well I think that answers your question, when you really like someone its way beyond the physical attraction, you dont even pay attention to their appearance, you just love being with that special someone, you just pay attention to their smiles. If you dont like him, you can be nice to him to, but please dont make him believe you love him because you may hurt, you may be nice but in a friend kind of way. If you love your boyfriend you shouldnt even be asking this question at all. You wouldnt doubt of being with him. I hope i help in the most difficult problem of all...love.
2006-07-24 14:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by regular guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if the chemistry is right and you love or care about the person enough you will see them as the one you love or care for. But if you see them as kind, nice and respectful but you aren't physically attracted to them, you will have problems with that in the future. Its all about chemistry.
2006-07-24 14:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by D-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have found that person that you are looking for right now and you should go for it. But let's not forget the other person you can not have two at the same time this will hurt all involved. Because being happy with that one someone will make you happy and that other person also, but only one at a time. CARMA.
2006-07-24 14:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you develope feelings for this guy, he'll seem more attractive. My bf's cute, but if you asked me now and when we first started dating I'd have a higher opinion of his looks now.
2006-07-24 14:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well physical attraction helps what r u going 2 do if u start a relationship not have sex? seriously
2006-07-24 14:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋