I think any guy can get beautiful girls - if they act as if they are too cool - as in cooler than the girl - and also ignore her abit... unfortunately there are not many pretty girls with nice personalities...
few - but taken - they get snapped up very quickly....
So is the choice: go for beauty but an bad personality or a nice girl with little looks? I know there are exceptions and thats the key isnt it???
2006-07-24 14:00:32 · 20 answers · asked by J F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some girls have to big of an attitude and i know that if i were a guy i wouldn't weant to deal with it at all. right now i don't if from a man either. i would settle for someone with little looks becasause sometimes having a bad personality makes you an ugly person. sometimes a person with a nice attitude realy on that as their looks. i rather see you go after the girl with a good attitude than one that doesn't ahve a good attitude to she can do you wrong. anymore questions don't be afraid to ask me because i am helpful person with a great attitude.
2006-07-24 14:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by tswatson21 1 · 16⤊ 3⤋
Without being too big-headed I'm an attractive gal with what a believe to be a good personality and I'm with a really great guy who isn't an asshole. I say this because strangely I feel you may be insulting my boyfriend with this comment.
I do see where you're coming from though. These beautiful girls do become women at some point and when they do they will see the error of their ways and go for the man with good character instead of the man with good chat-up lines and good looks. The reason they go for guys who treat em' bad is because they don't think they are worth any better, even if they are beautiful.
Not to be rude but you too sound like you have a little growing up to do- fine if you're in your teens not so good if you're in your 30's. You accuse girls of being shallow and going for the cool smooth talkers where as you're being just as bad by feeling you have to choose between looks or personality.
Girls come as a package but if you find in one girl a single unique, amazing feature that appeals to you, the whole package will become a lot more beautiful. Look for that uniqueness.
2006-07-24 14:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want the world? I've met girls and been in relationships with them who have seemed nice at first but having got to know them, they've become my idea of beautiful so I've had it all. Not sure if you'll undertsand that but somebody loving, honest, caring and attractive is much nicer than someone who is arrogant and stuck up their own a**e, no matter how pretty they are. I know what you mean about girls going for the a**eholes and like somebody here said - it's their downfall - they want something dangerous - they don't want something too easy. Guess you've probably heard of the thrill of the chase - keeps them chasing if the guy doesn't care as much as perhaps you and I would. My advice - just be yourself and don't get preconceived ideas about what you expect or what's perfect. It does sound like you've got a bit of a chip on your shoulder and that probably comes across too. Also be aware that the people who are beautiful today might be quite different in 5years time.
2006-07-24 16:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by smiling_madly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are beautiful girls out there that are singal and not stuck up trust me I should know although I'm not very pretty you just have to look a lil harder is all. But anyways I think you should go more so on personallit than on looks because trust me in the end thats all that matters anyway. I wish you luck on finding a nice beautiful non stcuk up girl. :)
2006-07-24 14:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is inside, not on the outside. Most girls that knows that they are beautiful, aren't really. Because they are stuck up. It is what is in the heart that counts. I don't think that I am pretty but I don't think that I am ugly. I don't care what people think of me. But I am in a relationship that I get treated like crap. I only ones that even tells me that they think that I am pretty is my sons. That is the reason why I am afriad to be in relationships. and the reason I rather be by my self with my kids.
2006-07-24 14:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an idiot..maybe that is why they dont like you, with taht attitude..maybe you are a fahg and just afraid to admit it, and blame the girls for being angry
personally I am amazed how many beautiful girls are so approachable and nice..wish I would have realized they were so easy to talk to when I was younger
2006-07-24 14:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by vincenzo445 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get told I a beautiful several times a day, but I don't think I am stuck up, and I don't have a bf, don't get me wrong guys flirt with me but in the end I choose to give them a fake number or not, and any guy who ignores me get a fake number, I like guys who give me lots of attention and make me feel special
2006-07-24 14:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with, "any guy can get beautiful girls"
but most beautiful girls choose the fine *** players.. its our down fall..
there are definatly exceptions to the rule.. once your burned you wise up!!
2006-07-24 14:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't have said it better, brains and beauty are seldom together, but IIII... thiiiink that you are the one with the problem you sound kind of shallow.
2006-07-24 14:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like nice guys so,nice girl w/ little looks
2006-07-24 14:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋