he promised on my life never to hurt me. he lied to her and me, cheated on me, and then broke my heart. i cant get over him though. should i move on.
2006-07-24 13:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Caliss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said 'my ex.'
Does this mean you left him over the affair with your cousin's best friend and now you are considering taking him back?
It is hard to move on, but you have to figure out if you are doing what it takes to move on? or are you pining for him?
If this is still pretty recent (like in the last six months or less), you are going to have to give yourself a break. I mean, a broken heart takes time (and it can take a loooooong time).
You were betrayed and it is going to be painful, but you have to be strong enough and love yourself enough to move on! And the fact that he betrayed you so 'close' to your home (your cousin's best friend...yikes) doesn't help at all. I mean it wouldn't hurt less if it were a complete stranger, but still, it was too close to home.
Make some tough decisions. Go out with 'the girls' and do activities that help you move on.
At the risk of letting on my age, go cruisin' for guys! Seriously. Hit some clubs and just scope out some guys and flirt. See how it feels to be single!
2006-07-24 14:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should. If you stay together, you wont trust him and you'll be miserable. Plus, if you take him back, he might think that it means that its ok to cheat on you. You know the saying "once a cheater always a cheater". I don't know if it's entirely true, but it makes sense. And I know it's hard to get over someone you really care about but just consider this as a sign that there are better things for you in store.
2006-07-24 14:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any evidence that he's really changed? If not, then he probably wants to stay with you because it's more comfortable than being alone. It may be great for him but it's going to make you nuts because you'll never know what he's doing.
2006-07-24 14:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl and leave him as the EX you better off
2006-07-24 14:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by black_berry31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he cheated on you once, and who knows how many other times, what are the chances he won't do it again?
2006-07-24 14:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Forget him. If he truly loves you he would have NEVER done such a thing!
Try to move on, it sounds easy and its easy to say but I know its going to be a difficult time for you. I'm so sorry. Guys can be such DOGS! >:o(
2006-07-24 14:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by buttercup83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on for your own sake . I'm sure you will find a wonderful ( unlike him ) who won't hurt you ( unlike him ) Please just do your self a favor ! It will save you a lot of hard ship ! You deserve better!
2006-07-24 14:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by rumblybumbly1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a lifetime of lies and cheating, then stick with him. Otherwise -move on
2006-07-24 14:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. like it or not you can never trust him 100% again
2006-07-24 14:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by garre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO THEY DO IT ONCE THEY WILL DO IT AGAIN
2006-07-24 14:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋