Im STILL A VIRGIN?

Question

IM STILL A VIRGIN DOSE SE+X HERT AND IS IT GOOD?

Answer 1

"you know how I know you're gay --- you like Coldplay"

Answer 2

Sex is really no big deal, even if it's good sex, so it doesn't really matter if you wait 10 minutes or 10 years before you loose your virginity. Sex lasts just a couple of hours if you're very lucky and is a better alternative to going to the cinema, but life still goes on outside the bedroom, you have another 22 hours to fill with the trivialities of life such as work, bills, choosing a care home for your mom:-)

I just want you to get some perspective. It's so easy when you're a virgin to let that fact become the centre of your world, if that's the case then I think you should just go out and do it. It didn't hurt at all for me, it was a one night stand with an older experienced guy when I was 15 and I really enjoyed it, I can't really say whether you'll have the same experience though.

As you're probably quite young I should probably add that you should play safe. Condoms prevent pregnancy and a range of serious and life threatening illnesses. They don't affect how good the sex is and don't let anyone tell you any differently. And check the expiry date on them- yes they do 'go off'.

Also if you're a bit of an idiot like me and decide to do the one night stand thing, try to do it with someone you're pretty sure isn't going to rape or assault you. Impossible to tell for certain I know just be cautious.

If you are really young, like 13 or below, I would say wait a bit longer because it will probably hurt like hell and you and/or the guy you do it with could end up in serious trouble- like prison!

Lecture over. It's good that you're asking these questions, I just hope I haven't bored you to death- then you'll never get to have sex!!

Answer 3

Congratulations on being a Virgin! The answer to your Question is: Sex is a wonderful thing, when you share your life with somebody who truly cares for you and loves you.
Sex without this loving commitment DOES hurt! It hurts your feelings about yourself, it hurts the ones who do love you and who will later love you. It will make you feel like nobody cares about you or will ever care about you. Most importantly sex carries a very high price. Not only does it make you have babies when you are not ready or mature enough. It also can KILL you! Even the best protection sold in the stores is not Fool Proof! You can still get pregnant, get nasty diseases, and diseases that can kill you!
So be proud that you are STILL A VIRGIN and don't let anybody tell you different! You are special! And what you have to offer the RIGHT person someday is your most wonderful gift! Treasure it and keep it safe till that person says" I do!" In front of a preacher and your family!

Answer 4

I think it all depends on how you have sex for the first time, If the person is gentle with you then no it will not hurt, but then if the person want to just get it on and is really ruff then yea its going to hurt like hell, i would say not to have sex unless you are with someone you love tell them you are still a virgin, more respect also, that way your first time wont be so bad or hurt.

Answer 5

Sex may be somewhat physically uncomfortable for a true virgin. Sex is only good for married people because it is in a relationship where there is mutual feelings of responsibility and trust toward your mate. It is only in marriage that there is a pledge of faithfulness in giving and in receiving sex from your partner without fear of accusations, challenges from others or danger of harm without recourse to help and support. Outside of marriage sex is bad because of the discomfort of not knowing if you can really depend on your mate for more sex if it is good, help if you get pregnant, cooperation if someone gets an STD or gets sick and real concern for you as a family member. Sex gets better with someone you can trust and legally depend on for support in times of need. Sex is not a lasting joy when it is shared with a stranger or a passing fancy. It can be emotionally very painful and damaging to the self-esteem when there is rejection involved. Sex for the sake of an orgasm is very BAD.

Answer 6

Good for you! Sometimes i wish i was still a virgin. Yes the first time hurts like a son of a b itch, don't be scared. With the right person you might not even notice

Answer 7

OMG...you're still a virgin!!!!....call the newspapers. Being a virgin is not an illness you have to get rid of. Take your time and wait until the absolute perfect person for you comes along. This is something that will have an impact on the rest of your life. It should be something special.....you're worth it.

Answer 8

It's "does" not "dose" and "hurt" not "hert"...you probably aren't old enough to be worrying about it sweetie, if you can't spell any better than that...

You'll find out in time...enjoy being young and carefree...sex brings a lot of issues and responsibilities with it...

Answer 9

Nothing personal but I looked to see the other questions that you have asked. So if you are a virgin, the baby you gave up for adoption 4 years ago was from immaculate conception???

Answer 10

Stay a virgin till your married or as long as you can! Sex will hurt a little when you first have it, after that it is beautiful with the one you love. And yes it's good with the one you love!

Answer 11

what kind of twit r u how can u still b a virgin if ur daughter was adopted 4years ago as was ur last question let me guess it must b the immaculate conception the comming of christ darling becareful in future of the questions u ask because were watching the questions as i hope ur taking on bored the replys were smarter and better and quicker then u bright eyes