yea i was an Ahole and cheated, i love her and we still plan to get married one day hopefully but we dont trust eachother, she hasnt cheated on me that i know of. But i always think their is someone out their better than her, we live together at her parents house but plan on moving out together, and idk what to do.
2006-07-24 13:31:55 · 29 answers · asked by shady_lmtd12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen dude.
Cheating is bad, earning that trust back will take years. Just really express you're sorry, and not with just words. If you really love her, you'll pull through.
2006-07-24 13:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if you'll cheat once, you'll cheat again. You obviously had no respect for your girlfriend in the first place. Besides, if she's just your unpaid prostitute, then you probably wouldn't see what you did as cheating. You probably just saw her as being replaced by a better business proposition.
Either make the decision to be a decent human being or continue to be a pimp. Your decision. Either way, I believe trust is always going to be an issue with you.
2006-07-24 13:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will trust you again eventually. You just need to sit down with her and tell her you love her and will never cheat on her again. A lot of people think that there is someone better. And there might be, it's up to you whether you stay with your girlfriend or leave. If you really think that there is someone better though, you need to leave. It's not fair to her if you stay thinking that you can do better.
2006-07-24 13:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely Not. I know if my girl cheated on me I would not take her back, That is the only thing that she could do that I could not forgive. Once the trust is broken, the relationship is gone. Trust makes the relationship, If you have no trust you have nothing.
2006-07-24 13:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by sabre6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the main foundation of a relationship. Yes you cheated and you admited it to her. if its been over a year and you stayed faithful then she should be starting to gain SOME kind of trust in you again. how are you gonna get married when you both cant trust each other?
2006-07-24 13:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.if you think there is someone out there better than your girlfriend,please.please don't ruin this girl's life by marrying her,let her off the hook gently.Neither of you trust each other,where there is no trust there is no love.Move on and have a play around then maybe u will find the perfect girl u are looking for.She is not the one.
2006-07-24 13:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by fairie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deserves way better than you. IF you still think there is someone better out there you are NOT ready to settle down and you will cheat again and it's no bloody wonder she doesn't trust you.
2006-07-24 13:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your statement "I always think their is someone out their better than her" tells the tale (except you misspelled there)...you're not a good match for each other...let her go so she can meet someone who thinks she's awesome, and won't be looking or thinking they could've done better...
Would you want to be settled for? It's not flattering...why settle for her? That's an injustice to you both...
Move on...after a year the trust issue is there as well...that's not a good sign...let her go...you'll both be happier in the long run...
2006-07-24 13:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she will ever be able to trust you. It sounds like she is trying hard to keep your relation ship together, but after she worked so hard to be with you, you cheated on her, which destroys all her hopes. I think you guys need to go your seperate ways
:(
2006-07-24 13:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by dollerstorelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an idiot, a fool, an imbecile etc. You don't know what love is. You're just in pursuit of sex and satisfying your sexual desires. Your girlfriend has a reason not to trust you and every reason not to. I can't think of any reason for her father not to shoot you right now. You are an absolute loser.
2006-07-24 13:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by Intelligent and curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋