As I was saying He is from Mexico and I am from California. He's 24 and I am 25. He dosen't speak any english and I don't speak a lot of spanish, but we love eachother too much to let eachother go. What Should I Do.
2006-07-24 12:58:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously you fell in love without speaking alot it will only make you more focused on learning spanish which isnt a bad thing.
2006-07-24 13:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by mandy01 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Does he live near you? If this is a long distance thing, don't spend much money. I married a Mexican man (who did speak English), but 6 years and two kids later we are divorced because the cultural differences were too big to overcome. Maybe your relationship will work out, but give it time and let him take some English classes. DON"T move down to Mexico. Get to know him over time.
2006-07-24 14:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship cannot grow very well if you can't communicate. You must learn a common language: whether it's Spanish, or English, or Korean, or Russian, or German, or Yoruba, or American Sign Language, or any other - doesn't matter - but you must have some language in which the two of you can communicate.
2006-07-25 03:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one of you should make that sacrifice to learn each others native language. Especially if you plan on being together and living in the same country. I would recommend if he comes here to learn English and if you choose to move there then you should learn Spanish. Communication is key in a relationship... without it you have nothing. -Good luck!
2006-07-24 13:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by lindsaytejeda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol , i was once in your shoes before , when i met my husband 12 yrs ago , he did not speak english and i did not speak spanish so what we did we went to the mexican store and got a book and when he got home from work we sat down and study english and he would tell me spanish and also i would watch spanish tv , and listen to it now i can speak it and understand it all and write it .
2006-07-24 13:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it can't be love without actually speaking to each other. Love comes from understanding. How do you know if he loves you? Maybe he's just trying to stay here in the states with your "love". Women are often easily trapped by "love" and are blinded by it. What do you know about him?
I'm not sure what you mean by "what should you do?". What do you want to do? It's not a problem to date others, even if you don't understand the language. Doesn't mean it's love though.
2006-07-24 13:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Enjoy each other, your language barer will become smaller and smaller. Good luck.
2006-07-24 13:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you know prosatuts there only cost $5 !!!!! hope your REALLY good if thats were he is!
2006-07-24 13:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
suck his dik
2006-07-24 13:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by miguel m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋