my boyfriend forgot about our 3 month anniversary. i know its not a big thing but we discussed that morning that we would do something and then he forgot. Then he made a lame excuse! he claims he still loves me and we've been thru a lot... should i end it??
2006-07-24 12:46:36 · 43 answers · asked by ilovehayden4evr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If milestones are more important than how you feel about each other, you might not be ready for a relationship.
2006-07-24 12:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Man with a plan. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to end a relationship over a stupid little 3 month anniversary date then the answer is "yes, you should end it" because you're not ready to have a real relationship. You're way too immature and you probably need to just practice before you can be in a real relationship which means you work things out and not jump up and be ready to end it at the least little thing. And, sorry, 3 months is nothing. If he forgot your 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 or 10 year anniversary I'd say that would be something to be pissed over.
2006-07-24 12:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the hayden in your on-line name is the same guy you're writing about, I think you have some issues that need to be addressed. Take a better look inside, you seem clingy, why are you so needy? This guy must have patience, but you need to get a grip. How will you live in the real world of dirty diapers and a selfish, grouchy husband? I hope you are very young, and if you are, then you don't need a boyfriend, focus on school, sports, friends. By the way, most people don't celebrate a 3 month anniversary. What does he do for your birthday? That's more important.
2006-07-24 12:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, it's a 3-month anniversary and technically, anniversary stands for the annual celebration of something. Annual meaning year. It cracks me up that people want to celebrate monthly, but regardless, let me try to help you out here. First, did you celebrate the first month? Or the second month? If not, then why the 3rd month? As for his forgetting from that same morning about doing something later, it is possible it slipped his mind. Men don't think of things like this. It's how he treats you from day to day. So if he's thoughtful and kind and cherishes you on every day, then let this go. Pick your battles wisely.
2006-07-24 12:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't after a 3 month anniversary. some men just do not think about the little steps along the way. if it were your 1 year and his excuse was lame and was out with friends then i would end it.
2006-07-24 12:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by miscoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not an anniversary. Where did you get that? If you wanna end it because of that you are just looking for an excuse.
2006-07-24 13:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you if you want to end it, but if he really did forget then he did.However, I highly doubt he forgot if you talked to him that morning about it. Talk to him about it again and ask him to be completely honest, ask him how he forgot if you two talked about it in the morning and come evening he just forgot. Ask him if he really wants to be with you or not. This question could be hard depending on what he says but its better you know now than later. Ending it is up to you, if that's what you want to do then do it, but make sure before you do it because after you have you really shouldn't turn back around and get with him. I hope this helps and good luck.
2006-07-24 12:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i really think he jus messed up and forgot which yea is important but do u really want to end things because he forgot about a THREE month anniversary things 2 me shuld end because of things bigger than that
2006-07-24 12:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by nikki s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let me get this straight you wanna end it due to the fact that he forget your 3 month anniversary? That is very foolish. 3 months is not even that significant. If you wanna end it, end it over something that is not petty - for example, if he cheated on you. Like come on it's only 3 months.
2006-07-24 12:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't end it i'm sure he didn't do it on purpose. guys are like that they are not good with remembering dates so don't blame him if it's in his genes. and over a 3 month anniversary??? don't u will just regret it. my man forgot about our 1 year anniversary but i didn't break up with him cuz guys aren't like girls all into birthdays and anniversaries! give him another chance cuz i'm sure he still loves u
2006-07-24 12:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's good to you in most ways, no, don't end it over this. Guys are usually not as into anniversaries as girls are. It's just the way they are.
2006-07-24 12:49:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋