alright so im 13 hes 14 and hes not allowed to date yet? i truly believe i love him and i know he likes me a lot. we see each other every sunday morning, every sunday night, and every wednesday, and a lot of fridays. all at church. we like each other a lot but i dont know how long to wait? i dont feel like i want to date any other guys so i guess just wait on him right? help me here.
2006-07-24 12:43:49 · 14 answers · asked by lovely 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dating is basically just the two of you hanging out and talking. Hanging out in church is not quite dating, but its half way there.
13 and 14 is a bit young for complicated relationships. Go with what you got for a while, and let it develop a bit slower than you'd like.
If you give it time, It'll grow, and grow, and will be really special. You don't want to blow it all by doing things too soon. If you blow it, it never comes back.
Soon enough, he'll be dating, and then you can have it all.
2006-07-24 13:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are young.... not too young to know what love is necessarily..but too young to handle all that can come w/ loving someone. there's a lot of responsiblity, and hard work, sacrifice and maturity involved in loving someone. if u truly think this boy is worth waiting for, then do so. if u find that u are interested in a new boy later, it just means u may not have known what love was. just keep on trying to be a good person, and make sure ur boy respects u and ur feelings. :) don't get too caught up in anything too soon, because u may regret things when ur older. don't worry about love right now.... just take care of u and ur friends and family relationships, and have a great, fun time while keeping true to urself and always growing to be a good woman when ur older. :)
2006-07-24 19:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait. Dating is for adults. It's for two people who are serious about marriage and understand commitment. You are way too young to be dating. You can't even get married for a long time. When you date that young, it's just a game and thats not what dating is suposed to be. Just be friends with this guy and any other guy you know or like. One day you will meet a guy you really love and want to be with and if it's ment to be you'll be together...you just have to be patient. I know thats hard at your age...i was once that age and i know how that is, but you will be glad you waited. I'm glad i did.
2006-07-24 19:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i'm 16 and dont have a date yet!! around that age, we changes our feeling a lot, and even if u date him, u'll only last a few mnths. our feeling still changes and we always changes who we like in about a year periods. and so, wait till you have job then start dating, how do u feel if you date somone and use your parent's money? i dont feel right, the purpose of dating is ultimately marriage, and if u cant afford dating by ur own job i thinks it doesnt fell right that u can do well on fea; marriage. so wait a little bit!! until 17 or 18
2006-07-24 19:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 it ain't love, it's infatuation. Infatuation isn't bad, in fact it can be a lot of fun. You get to know someone and do things with them. You learn about other people's feelings. It's a good thing, run with it and have fun. Infatuation will get you ready for when you REALLY fall in love.
2006-07-24 19:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by maxinebootie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and im not allowed to date either but i've still had boyfriends. Just don't let your parents find out. you can go lunch dates with him at school.
2006-07-24 19:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You keep yourself chaste. You're too young to be thinking about this stuff. You WAIT! You WAIT! for a boy to be doing your thing. It ain't right. Take my word for it. It's much better when you wait. So, knock it off, jungle girl! Please yourself if you must. But don't do the nasty at yout tender, young age. It'll be worth it, later.
2006-07-24 19:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T YOU JUST GET A LIFE. you sound so not ready to date. Your road will be well traveled by squatters but none will stay the climate is much to unstable
2006-07-24 19:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just work on developing a really great friendship. I wouldnt worry about anything else right now
2006-07-24 19:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say wait. If he's a good guy he's not gonna want to do anything now... wait till later.
2006-07-24 19:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by TheONEJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋