Why are all women so obsessively manipulating? I don't mean it in a harsh and indictive way, but why must you all find some way to manipulate a person or situation to accomplish a certain goal? All I ever hear is "What can I do to make my BF love me more than his ex" or "Should I get my BF to get me pregnant so he stays with me because I love him." Or even better, "How do I get my BF to love me. Should I buy him stuff?" Ladies... it's not about manipulating the situation. It's about accepting realities and truths and being real with us guys. I mean, I love all you women but it is depressing watching you do this to yourselves.... and us. So please answer me why you do it?
2006-07-24 12:11:32 · 14 answers · asked by benh316 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see a lot of "youth jabs" from some of the ladies who have posted... I am 20 myself; quite young I guess, but if it is just girls who are "young" whom do these things... do they really ever grow out of it? I mean, habits do not die easily...
2006-07-24 12:20:13 · update #1
its usually only if they are insecure. This also can relate to the questions YOU stated in your question:
[ What can I do to make my BF love me more than his ex" or "Should I get my BF to get me pregnant so he stays with me because I love him." Or even better, "How do I get my BF to love me. Should I buy him stuff?" ]
All based on insecurities. If shes not insecure, she has no reason to be manipulative. O, this doesnt go for all women, and yes some men do it also.
2006-07-24 13:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not just women its men too. Most human beings want to play god and control every situation, if u acknowledge that u can't make a man love u then u have to accept that u have no control. Having no control is scary. We all want to choose who we love but when a man doesn't act as we feel he should then instead of giving up we first attempt to mold him. Take no offense everyone does it to a certain extent.
2006-07-24 12:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by Crewgirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question should be directed to little girls,,,not Ladies! A lady would never do such a thing and would have more self respect then to think buying or trapping a man is the best way to get him...
2006-07-24 12:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF A BOYFRIEND HAS TO BE MANIPULATED INTO LOVING THAT PERSON I THINK THE GIRL IS A IDIOT. IF THE LOVE ISN'T THERE NATURALLY IT IS SOMETHING YOU ARE DEFINATELY MISSING KICK HER TO THE CURB AND YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE AND MAYBE YOU WILL SEE WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT IT IS A FEELING YOU CAN'T DICRIBE, IT SURE ISN'T BY MANIPULATION NO MEANS SO I SAY KEEP LOOKING
2006-07-24 12:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls think that its the only way to get what they want in life. they are ignorant and immature. ive been manipulated by ppl in the past and it sucks. everyone should just stop it!
2006-07-24 12:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've neve heard those but I kno what you mean. And they do it because we can. I think it's sort of sick but almost all girls are good at it with every detail. So just try and find ones that aren't like that. but simply because we can (isn't it sad)
2006-07-24 12:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by AnaDP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it has something to do with youth?
I don't remember saying any of those things...
but i do know that i was a lot more flighty and restless w/my past relationships. honestly too...I don't know any of my girl friends who are like that either.
maybe you just need to meet different ladies?
these girls sound superficial...and immature.
sorry.
2006-07-24 12:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by ohprettybud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I must be one of the exceptions because I don't do that.
2006-07-24 12:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by oneladyice1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, but its not always just girls that do it. so don't point your fingers at girls only, just cause your a guy. guys do it just as much as girls, so its every one. your a sexiest.
2006-07-24 12:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋