we have been with eachoter for over a year.. and as every couple we always fight.. but like lately i cant take it anymore.. like we always talk bout growing old together and i know we will.. its just THIS PHASE is so bad.. and last night he yelled at me.. and i sed..fine dont be with me then.. so this morning i havent even called him for 5 hours.. nomrally i call him when i wake up..and i already talk to him.. but its a quiet talk..and.. i feel llike if i talk to him.. its giving in too easy..w e make up.. problem will still come up.. but if i ignore him.. i feel he might think i dont love him andymore and leave him =/.. i just want some inner peace time..what am i suppose to do?..
2006-07-24 11:41:26 · 10 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Playing games is not the way to solve this. You need to sit down and seriously talk through the issues that are causing you to fight to see if a remedy can be found. Going up and down on this roller coaster you are calling a relationship is unhealthy for both of you.
2006-07-24 11:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ Nickels ♪ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u sound just like I did a few weeks ago. Me and my boyfriend fought constantly it is was starting to get to be too much for me and for him. You can't say that this is a phase and you can't say for sure that you and him will grow old together because nothing is gauranteed. Guys don't like to argue all the time and sooner or later he'll get fed up and leave you. You gotta let things go and try your very hardest not to fight even if he starts it you just gotta take a deep breathe and relax. If you're talking to him on the phone and he starts and argument just say bye and hang up the phone. The best way to calm down most times is to distance yourself from the situation. Sorry that was sooooo long. Best of luck.
2006-07-24 18:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it took me about 8 minutes to read this because of all of the ellipses... Second, do everyone a favor and take a keyboarding course, followed by a grammar course.
Okay, now for some serious advice. It sounds like you are being too clingy. Not talking to him for 5 hours is... not... a... big... deal.
Try 5 days. That's my advice. Give him some space. Peace out.
2006-07-24 18:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by jstopa08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to him on what ur thinking but u should call him cause most guys are very stubborn and wont give in, but at the same time he is probably thinking the same way as you right now so jus call him, its not like ur relationship is a game and it wont prove anything if u dont call him first. so if u want to get over this then u need to talk to him about it in a nice conversation, and u should apologize for saying that he shouldn't be with you then, just talk this whole issue over with him and everything should be fine
2006-07-24 18:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about foolish pride, call him. Couples have disagreements, you get hurt feelings, but it's all a part of love,
and growing together as a couple.
Love isn't when you can live with one, true love is when you can't live without him/her. It's not about who's right or has to be right,It's about loving through everything and holding on to each other tight.
2006-07-24 21:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how this is all making you feel tell the truth
be open about it, dont hide anything
sit down and have a serious talk
and if you two can't work it out, then you need to find someone else
someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated because no one should be yelled at or hurt because of a boyfriend
2006-07-24 18:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by M<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key to long lasting relationship is communicating. You're not going to stay together for very long if you cannot talk and work out your problems together. Arguements are going to come. It's O.K. to pout a little bit to calm yourself down, but you have to talk and work it out. Trust me, it took me three relationships before I found this out. It WORKS!
2006-07-24 18:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by poison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should call him... yea i know thts kinda giving in but tht jst proves u really do love him jst if u guys fought over some pitty reason dont call him but if it was over something reasonable then call him.
2006-07-24 18:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bailey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing, learn to spell and type correctly so people will take you more seriously. Two, if you're hot come get with me and I'll treat you like a queen.
2006-07-24 18:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by osfan1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u fight talk it out and if u can't stop fighting then break up but JUST CALL HIM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 18:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by timsgirl789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋