we both work separate shifts and his ex lives next door to
his uncle.I dont know the address, should I have him followed?
or is there any easier ways to spy ,with out him knowing
he,s being watched?help me
2006-07-24 11:28:12 · 13 answers · asked by rokrgrl77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do a "war of the roses"...heres what you do
You have one of your friends who he doesn't know very well call him up and say something like this...
"Hi this is Mary calling from Loves me, loves me not flower shop. Im looking for a Mr. 'Fill-in-the-blank'. Is this him?"
"Yes"
"Oh wonderful! Sir, I am calling to inform you that you have won a complementary boquet of flowers! We have 2 dozen red and white roses to be delivered to that special someone in your life! Can I get the name of the person who you would like to send this boquet to?"
And you wait and see whose name he says. If he says your name, you will have to go through with the whole things and get yourself some flowers and then tell him that you got the flowers and how much you love him etc etc.
If he says some one elses name, well....
You will probably want to be on the line when your friend calls. If he says you, then just keep quiet. If he says someone else, then you should confront him right then and there. Don't give him any way out or any chance to deny who he said. Good luck
P.S.- Make sure you pick a friend who will be good at acting and who will be able to handle any questions he may have. If you friend can't hold it together or is not convincing, then its not gonna work. Also, make sure your friend knows to butt out and let you say your piece if he says the other girls name.
2006-07-24 11:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by FM?FU! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
why wait to catch him cheating? if you think he is...HE PROBABLY IS! trust and honesty are priorities in any relationship. apparently, you are having some trust issues. if you can't resolve it by communication, then it's not worth it to let it get to the point of you playing spying games.
life is too short to be doubting the person you supposedly are in love /having a relationship with. if your intution is telling you something... trust it.
not to sound like a smart ***, but if you really wanted to pursue some drama queen action... contact the show CHEATERS or just show up unexpectedly. if you choose the latter and are afraid that he's going to catch you... i'm sorry, but it's not worth pursuing this relationship if you're afraid of him really finding out what you're suspecting or feeling. COMMUNICATION is key!!!
2006-07-24 18:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by charwants2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? If you aren't married, then you and the other women he's sleeping with are nothing but unpaid prostitutes. Sorry. You can get as mad at me as you want, but if you are living with a man that isn't your husband, you made yourself what you are----I didn't.
Get out of that situation. Find a good church who have other women who have been freed from that kind of sin, and they will be happy to help you find some real joy. You both can be forgiven for your sins. But you have to turn away from the sins, not continue what you're doing, ask God for forgiveness, and you can be forgiven. But if you both continue on the road you're on, you will both be unpaid prostitutes for whatever man/woman you choose to dishonor yourself with.
2006-07-24 18:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheatin. when a women sinces a guy is cheating, thats the answer already. so no, u dont need someone to follow him, u just need to tell him that we're through.
2006-07-24 18:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by jaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With no trust, it's never gonna work out for you two.
2006-07-24 18:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait if you don't trust him what are you doing with him? and don't say its cause you love him. you don't treat people you love like that. trust him or leave him. how happy can you be living like this?
2006-07-24 18:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother.. too much effort.. just dump his A.S.S out with the trash.. no need to explain why your dumping him.. he will know .. plus he will feel right at home in the trash girl..
2006-07-24 18:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont trust him dump him. What are you going to when you catch him cheating? dump him now or dump him later!
2006-07-24 18:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by quikone2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a private detective
2006-07-24 18:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by mother of two beautiful babies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he goes you go baby
2006-07-24 18:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Peace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋