because I feel I am to young (16) to be having foreplay (not sex) and there for I feel guilty. I mean he never told his friends and all) but I still feel like I don't know if he likes me for that only. I know he doesn't but then why do I feel like guilty everytime, I go to second base or give him oral pleasure?
2006-07-24 11:24:46 · 5 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i used to feel that way when i was w/ my first bf..and i was in freshman year of college!! after i did it, it made me want to cry. it's so strange huh.. i think when u feel utter and total love and stability from ur partner, and u feel that you are HIS and he is YOURS, then u will be ok with it..but if for whatever reasons ur not sure about things , or u feel innocent or vulnerable, or doing it just to please him, anything like that, i think us women end up feeling guilty for doing something "dirty".... eventually it will go away, but now that i look back i realize it was because i wasn't completely in love w/ that person and something felt wrong.
2006-07-24 11:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with ur heart if he didnt tell his friends then he likes u for u so u can go to 2nd base or give him oral pleasure
2006-07-24 11:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by badb0y69420_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW 16 YEARS OLD AND FOREPLAY, NO YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THAT, BUT ANYWAYZ, YOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT. COMMUNICATION IS THE BEST KEY TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.
2006-07-24 11:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
none just forget about it it will take a while but forget it
2006-07-24 11:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do something you don't feel comfortable doing..
2006-07-24 11:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by velvet b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋