Why do all unattached males like to find slim slender ladies?

Question

What is wong with us more volumtous women? Look at at the personal ads.....WHY do they all want ths same kind of women?

I need help I am not fat fat fat - carrying a few extra pounds, have a womanly shape need loving... SOS

Answer 1

Personally, I like my chicks on the heavy side. Not fat, but FIT and heavy. Join a nice gym, start pumping iron, get in shape, and you will meet plenty of guys. The ratio in the weight room is always 10:1. You will look better, feel better. Go for it.

Answer 2

For the same reason unattached women like to find athletically built males - the media and culture are continually barraging us all with the idea that it is only what's on the outside that counts. How you project your personal appearance with the size and shape you are can affect this snap-judgement in dramatic ways. This is why shows like TLC's What Not to Wear are so popular- they show us how to make the most of our shape without having to change us, only our clothes.
Still I think, as a happily married woman with many single friends, that my father's use of the old addage is very true: Whereever you find your future spouse is an indication of where you'll find them later in life. If you're looking for a serious relationship built on something more meaningful you need to look for people in places other than bars and dance clubs - places like volunteer organizations, churches, synagogues, and community ed classes - places that can be meaningful for you even if that isn't the day you meet your man.
Good luck and believe that you're worth loving and when that magical day is meant to happen it will.

Answer 3

it may be their ideal dream but men end up with something better than the dream a real person maybe even you. Confidence and happiness is what you really need not a shape or quantity of fat cells in certain places.
Don't be phased by these ads they tend to be a bit phony and image conscious fools.
hope you have better luck finding a partner for care and attention you so desperately need now. Have you tried a foreigner they may be better than your local lads, look further than the local paper, try Filipino or Indian men for a change.African or Caribbean, they may give you the right attention better than your current batch.
All the very best now and keep on trying don't give up

Answer 4

You ever smelled a fat woman who's sweating? People who are using those ads are not looking for someone to play checkers with. They're looking for some action. They don't want someone who sweats like a pig and smells of rotten beef. Also, say it works out. People in marriages or long relationships tend to let themselves go. Personally if I'm in that situation, I'd rather be with someone who goes from 120 to 130 pounds than someone who's 180 going to 350 pounds. Just because you like to sit around watching Oprah and stuff down bon-bons doesn't mean the rest of us should suffer too. Ok, I'm done here. NEXT!

Answer 5

Not all unattached males prefer slim slender ladies. Definitely some have bought into advertising and media and think that it is the way to go. While some I believe tune in to the procreation idea. A slim slender lady is more likely to be fertile. But all in all different people different strokes you would get your man.

Answer 6

I think they just say it to be 'normal'...or to guard against being approached by very large potential dates possibly - insurance policy? I don't think many men really go for the Victoria Beckham look. I may be wrong about this, but I think they just mean 'not too fat'...? I know I'll get shot for this, but I was just thinking - aren't women just as bad about mens' height? And that's not even something they can change. Ah, we're not so badly off really :)

Answer 7

Hi:
Perhaps you're looking in the wrong place.
I think,if you are looking for someone through Internet, of course they'll like to find a model or someone like Shakira, but if you look for somebody in your real life, then you'll probably have more chances to show your qualities.
My case was somehow similar. I was looking for a princess till I found someday a girl that gave me all that I need and not know it yet. I didn't like her first, but she show me plenty of qualities that I liked a lot, for example I love chicken and she prepared one for me.XD. and know, we'll get married.
What I'm trying to say is that in Internet you have many possibilities to find a very good looking girl than in real life, but you don't have the opportunity to show what you're really made of.

Answer 8

i have asked quite a few voluptuous women for a date and there response would be regarded as some what unpleasant to the point of nastiness some larger ladies feel that no one would be interested in them except for a quickie. so they want a man but when one wants them they tell them to **** off so come on i think its about time you voluptuous ladies should get off your high horses wipe the chip off your shoulder and give us guys that do like our women on the big side a chance

Answer 9

men mainly go for skinny women as some of them now not all have there head in the own behind, and because most of them are easy to get into. but you can quote me on this skinny women tend to be great looking but a conversation with them is like talking to a brick wall, and in 20/30 years they will be the size of a house

Answer 10

hiya, men like women in all shapes and sizes.. nothing wrong with being voluptuous ..it's just a matter of meeting the right guy who will cherish and love you and i'm sure that day will come soon enough.. my brother met the love of his life at.. http://uk.match.com and my dad met his new lady love at that dating website aswell so that must be a good recommendation so why don't you give it a try.. all the best.. :-)