My uncle is in the middle of a divorce. I just found out his ex wife has made some comments about my grandfather publically.(we come from a small town) My grandfather recently passed away. I also found out of an incident in which she miss treated my grandfather. My grandfather was a kind man. He even gave them money for a down payment on their 1st house. I really want to hurt this b**ch, but I dont want to cause any problems for my uncle(Normally I am a very peaceful person but Id really like to knock her teeth out)
2006-07-24 11:19:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I understand your feelings but this "lady" doesn't deserve the energy it would take to "knock her teeth out". The best thing you could do is just support your Uncle--If he is a good guy he will be well rid of her. The Lord will bless you if you continue being nice and peaceful but believe me, if she is truly what you say she is her ways will bring her down. They always do. Then don't rejoice at her downfall, just shake your head and say nothing. I hate that your grandfather was mistreated by this woman but that is behind him now. Concentrate on being the best you that you can be and other people are not stupid--they will see what you and your family are made of and they can see what she is made of. It will all be made right in the end. Good luck, sweetheart.
2006-07-24 11:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by cloud_9_andson 2 · 17⤊ 1⤋
How did you find out what she was supposed to have done? If you didn't witness it...it didn't happen. In a divorce (especially a bad one) the backbiting and cat calling goes both ways. Neither party wants to look as bad as the other and will often invent incidents and rumors.Continue to love your uncle and stay out of his business. Everyone involved knows the real truth. In time this will blow over and be forgotten. Love is strange and hate is stranger. Remember that people love to talk and speak badly about another. Given the right opportunity and a small amount of information, I could even tell you something that your uncle's wife said or did.
I would pray for her soul and hope that these rumors were not true. Blood is thicker than mud any day of the week and it is very admirable for you to stand up for your families name and honor. I hope that this helps you...even just a little bit.
2006-07-24 18:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the sake of your Grandfather's memory don't engage in any physical or verbal communication with your soon to be divorced aunt. In addition; by getting involved in their business could cause more problems within your family and the small town. Stay out of it!
2006-07-24 18:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trouble here is that someone told you what you are angry about and you don't know if it's true. Your uncle is stressed enough right now without your adding to it. I understand perfectly how you feel - been there, done that - but you really need to stay out of it.
2006-07-24 18:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be thankful that your uncle is getting this harpy out of your family. Prove that kindness runs in your family and stay out of it. What would your grandfather have done?
2006-07-24 18:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by erin7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resist temptation. People will see her true colors in time and anything you do will just make you look like the vindictive biatch here. Stick by your uncle and show your support positively toward him. That will mean more than anything nasty you can pull over on that evil woman. Good luck.
2006-07-24 18:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, would just let it go. There's no need to cause any more heartache or disruption in your family. Just be happy that your uncle made the right decision to divorce her.
2006-07-24 18:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u told ur uncle how u feel. If not tell him && since he's getting a divorce maybe u && ur uncle can confront her face 2 face.
2006-07-24 18:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by FlyAway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. That will be difficult, but the best way to shut people's mouths who spread crap like that is to act in such a way that it proves they are liars. Plus, if you try to do any spin doctoring and talk about it yourself to defend it, you are unwittingly spreading the crap. The people who know and love your grandpa know the truth. I have lived long enough on this earth to see that "what goes around comes around." She will spew her crap to the wrong person and it will bite her. Don't worry about her.
2006-07-24 18:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a one to one chat with her. If that dont work then do the knock her teeth out thing
2006-07-24 18:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋