my brother calls me a s*** and the b**** all the time i asked him to pls stop but he wont. he says he calls me a b**** because i smoke cigarrettes and that i am a s*** because i talk to most of his friends but i just flirt with them thats it. Its not like i am having sex with them what do i do. im 15 he is 16
2006-07-24 11:15:59 · 37 answers · asked by undecided213 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stop being such white trash. Jackass.
2006-07-24 11:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Controlling what your brother says to you is going to be impossible. Hopefully, the fact that he gives you a hard time about smoking is his way of showing you he cares (even though it doesn't seem like it), this would also go along with the fact he doesn't like you flirting with his friends, sounds protective again. Try to look at his "meanness" as a big brother trying to protect his baby sister, it is not enjoyable to you, but you know he is looking out for you and that should feel good.
2006-07-24 11:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 15 and you smoke? Wow! your brother sounds like a pain in the butt. There really isn't a solution for your issue well there is a solution but not a solution that you can cause. Does that make since? Well anyway your brother will haft to change theres really nothing you can do to prevent this. Be calm. and don't give it back to him make him think is doesn't bug you.(even though it does) or try the alternate tell mom and dad!
2006-07-24 11:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Micky L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna know something, sweetie? The situation that you're in has been encountered by several siblings. My brother and I used to fight and be rude to each other all the time when we were younger (we are now 24 & 23). We are now really close; we visit each other and try to hang out as much as we can. I know it doesn't feel really good to be called names, but if you give it a few years, your brother will mature and realize how much he needs your love and friendship. Good luck!
2006-07-24 11:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right to be calling you those names. But at the same time it probably can be based on your actions. You admit to flirting with most of his friends so that means you probably show it a lot for him to pick up on it. Matbe you should explain to him that you are not serious with his friends but at the same time its kind of innapropriate for you to be acting that way with all his friends. Its a problem on both of you guys sides. He dosent have the right to be calling you those names but at the same time.. he calls you them for a reason. You are also kind of young to be smoking dont you think? I dont want to say that your going down the wrong path but a lot of the things your doing you shouldnt be doing at that age.
2006-07-24 11:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ĴỤiiČ¥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, this is typical. When I was 15, I smoked and my 17 year old brother hated that and hated it when I talked to his friends too. I even dated one of them! My best advice is to just ignore him and don't give him the satisfaction of getting upset. He'll come around once he grows up a little more so don't you worry! He's really trying to protect your reputation but he's going about it the wrong way. Enjoy your life as best as you can! Before you know it, you'll be best buds!
2006-07-24 11:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is probably just trying to protect you in an immature way. Smoking is bad for you and he is right that 15 year old girls who smoke typicaly are "easy" so it does make you look like a sl_t. Also stay away from his friends they will just use you to tease him. You'de be best if you treated his friends like scum, then they'll leave you alone.
2006-07-24 11:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when siblings are so close in age (especially during high school) it is really hard for them to get along.
I have an older sister who is four years older than me and she used to do the same thing...
it's just sibling rivalry, it happens a lot more than you think and i know it sucks but there really isn't much you can do to change his personality, especially if you arent doing anything wrong or anything specific to trigger his meanness; you just have to accept that that's the way he is for now.
i mean the only things you can do are just be cool to him and give him NO reason to hate you and then hopefully he'll realize what a jerk he's being.
and most of the time what happens, is once he goes off to college you guys will begin to get closer...it happened with me and my sis and i know it happened with a lot of my friends and their siblings as we got older.
i know it sucks for now, but i guess that it just life.
good luck...hope things get better soon as he matures.
2006-07-24 11:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his friends or at least don't flirt with them .
Stop smoking it is not cool any more ,we all know cancer sticks when we see them ,and your breath and teeth will last longer .
Just clean up your act ,your brother is trying to help you the only way he knows .
2006-07-24 11:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that hanging out with his friends is ok but i wouldn't flirt too much. ask your brother why he calls you a ***** for smoking cigarettes because that doesn't make any sense. If you are flirting alot then i guess it would be appropriate to call you a slut.
2006-07-24 11:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by SimpsonsLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your other question you ask about buying beer.
Are you getting intoxicated [drunk] at 15?
Are you embarrassing him? Are you acting slutty because you are drinking?
Maybe it's time to look for a new group of friends away from your brother.
Him calling you names will not help you from NOT drinking.
Find a group that fits your age and lifestyle and stay away from him and his friends.
2006-07-24 11:26:46 · answer #11 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋