i am a 31 year oid guy.wanna live my live to the fullest.working in a telecom industry in managerial post. but do not have a girl friend as i have taken my carrier as the first priority. now all of my collegues are either married or having girl friends, i feel uncomfortable between them. love night clubs but could not access due to lady partner, as they dont allow stag entry. i am getting alcoholic now a days as dont have any one to share my emotion.want to get out of it. can any one help????????????????????????? plzzzzzzzzzzzzz. wht should i do??????????????
2006-07-24 10:57:46 · 18 answers · asked by aguntuk02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
learn to spell first.
then clean yourself up.
then the ladies will come.
2006-07-25 02:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Deb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't use your situation as an excuse for anything. That turns girls off. Take responsibilty for an mistakes you may have made and then start looking.
You have to decide what kind of girl and/or realshinship you want. Smart and funny, dumb and pretty? Long term, one night stand? There are a lot more factors, but those are just some examples.
You could always try a dateing site, I know some people who met on one and got married.
Or, say you like books. You could try going a book store, and maybe you could meet some one there? Similar intrests. Dogs, plants etc.
Personal ads are out there too.
2006-07-24 11:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Black~Rose777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dont become an alchoholic. No woman wants a man who is gonna drink away his life. Be positive and dont allow yourself to drain your life in work. If your co-workers have a life with a family you should to. Make sure you know where to look and be careful She will come around and you'll be happy. 31 is still a good number to find the perfect partner. Chin up
2006-07-24 11:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by been there 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that depressed and having alcoholic tendencies, you're not going to make a very good impression. Women can sense desperate guys. Take care of yourself first - go to the gym, join a club, do some volunteer work. During the course of those things, you may run into somebody going through the same thing.
2006-07-24 11:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Volksfox89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop putting your career as your number one priority and meet some new girl in the park or somewhere and ask them out. Don't become alcoholic, no girl will like that and then you will be screwed for real. Just meet someone and take a chance. Good luck.
2006-07-24 11:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting acquainted with a gf with the intention of marriage is not that hard at all, your work buddies ought to know more than an eligible girl who could fill the slot. You're well-established and that'll make girls come scurrying to you. Knock off drinking and cheer-up, your patience shall be handsomely rewarded.
2006-07-24 11:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have any single female coworkers who would go with you to a club just to help you get in. Explain to her your situation, women are usually nice enough to help or maybe she'll hook you up with a friend. Who knows but it sounds like your real problem is a lack of talking to females. If you look around they are everywhere, not just night club.
And just to fill you in a nightclub is not really the place to meet a gf.
2006-07-24 11:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a profile on an Internet dating site like Lavalife, which is where I met my Fiancee 9 months ago. We are getting married next February :).
2006-07-24 11:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact Udate immediately
2006-07-24 11:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should drop the alcoholic beverage and go out and look for a place that does speed dating or go out to clubs and make yourself noticable wear something sexy that will draw the girl attention to your package and your personality and i promise you none of this will interfer with your and you will have a girlfriend shortly afterwards
2006-07-24 11:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by lucaanakin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP TAKING YOUR JOB TO THE HEAD AND RELAX IF YOU ARE READY LOOK FOR HER SHE MAY BE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE YOU ARE JUST MISSING HER IM GONNA WALK YOU THROUGH REAL QUICK KEEP LOOKING UP AT THE COMPUTER NOW LOOK TO THE LEFT THEN RIGHT NOW LOOK UP IN FRONT OF YOU AGAIN .....DO YOU SEE ME????? DO YOU WELL IM JUST BEING AN A-S BUT JUST KEEP LOOKING AND I KNOW YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU OPEN UP YOUR EYES AND EARS BABY STOP WORKING SO HARD LONG ENOUGH TO GET YOU A MATE GOOD LUCK
2006-07-24 11:05:14 · answer #11 · answered by libby71763 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋