OK. YESTERDAY this guy Brandon asked me out,ive know him for about 7 weeks now. and i said ya. he talked all nite long. he said i love you when we hung up. it was so sweet. and hes oneof the popular guys at my school plus he is a year older then me.last nite he said we were going to kiss in the park... after school ..so i come to school today. and he ignores me all day.!!! then he comes up to me and says i cant go to the park i have to work. my heart feel into a deep hole when i heard that.my heart was set on going with him.so i just said ok. then he walks off and leaves me. so when he gets on the bus. he shits next to the guys. HE IGNORS ME WHEN IAM 4 IN. AWAY FROM HIM!!! MYHEART FEELS LIKE CRAPP PLEASE HELP.I NEED SOME KIND OF DIRTY PLAN TO GET HIM TO FEEL THE PAIN. LIKE I HAVE.SOMETHING TO MAKE HIM GO CRAZY.
2006-07-24 10:23:10 · 31 answers · asked by Bree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok noo madder how old u are, guys still want sex, soo tell him ur planning something speacal, then kinda sound sexy, and say if u no wat i mean!! then tell him you cant go , u gotta go have dinner with ur grandparents, hill be sooo pissed!!!
2006-07-24 10:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by sixfrends 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't seek revenge, things will just get worse. Did u ever hear the saying what goes around comes around? He'll get pay back. Chances r he's not that interested in u. Y would u wanna be w/ someone like that? Just ignore him and if he comes 2 u tell him whats wrong and how u feel. Trust me, I know what it's like 2 have your heart broken. Hopefully things will get better, If not then just wait 4 the right guy 2 come along.
2006-07-24 17:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy killer, easy. It's not as bad as you think. If he's around your age, you have to remember what his friends are going to do to him when the find out he's got a girlfriend. This is all new to him too. Don't go exacting revenge yet, maybe he had to work. What if tomorrow he wants to go back to the park, but you did something terrible to him already? I say hold off. It's smarter not to get revenge, and it makes you a better person. Above all, stay calm. If you get all upset at him, you might scare the boy.
2006-07-24 17:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask urself is he really all that?! If he rather be with his boys(males) than with U(female, I presume) then his adolescent whims mean nothing and the best revenge is to let him come to you. I would still talk to other guys and be forward about it. Wear something really nice that makes the boys look twice-also get into something that will make you the flavor of the month(remain positive) and date someone more popular than him from another school, eventually the revenge will be sweet and you will forget about his lack thereof..
2006-07-24 17:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by se7moore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandon said he couldn't go with you because he had to work. Do you know for a fact that he lied? If he did lie, it is because he decided that he didn't want to be with you but he didn't want to hurt your feelings. At least he didn't just stand you up. There is really nothing you can do but move on. Your idea of revenge might sound good but, trust me, it will backfire and you'll end up suffering. You described him as one of the "popular guys" at your school. By popular, it means he is held in high regard by lots of friends. If you prank him because he decided to not go with you to kiss at the park, all his friends will make your school life miserable. Grow up and move on.
2006-07-24 17:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you walk away from him and ignore him. Sooner or later he is going to talk with you. I know your young, but 7 wks is to soon at your age to truly know what love is.
I am sure he was just wanting to do something with someone else. and I mean that in a good way not bad.
If your feeling like crap that is what he wants you to do. So suck it up and show him your better than that. there are plenty more fish in the sea :)
2006-07-24 17:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee.....that's a hard question you asked....there are so many ways depending on what kind of guy he is and there are so many reasons he didn't want to hang with you. This guy doesn't know what he wants but to answer your question is find another kind and don't ever make eye contact with with or sit close to him at the most it will make him feel like he wasn't that important to you and would show him you weren't fazed by him.
2006-07-24 17:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by quasgreen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from tha queen of revenge today is your lucky day
try my famous turn on
you tell him hes in for the night of his life and when hes all happy tell him sorry cant my hamster died or any thing stupid that will make him feel like you are ditchin him on purpose or for a stupid reason
for more help and/or ideas email me at:
ya_gurl_sweety@yahoo.com
P.S. you're goal is to make him cry no matter how long it take
now if it takes more than a month or 2 give up or get tough
2006-07-24 17:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting revenge isn't ever the answer, and neither is being rude back. Maybe he did have to work, but ignoring you was very rude and hurtful on his part. Say hi when you see him, just don't let yourself be hurt. You will meet someone who will treat you like you should be. I wish you the best!!!
2006-07-24 17:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is ignoring him completely. Guys totally hate that it drives them crazy. When he gets over his little game with
you , he'll try talking to you again. But you will ignore him today, tomorrow and forever.
2006-07-24 17:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by EVEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a better attitude. Has it crossed your mind that he may really need to work. And as far as the bus thing goes, maybe he is not ready to share with the guys that he is attracted to you. Cool it little girl.
2006-07-24 17:27:45 · answer #11 · answered by denimblue_6a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋