I need help being more (I think assertive is the word Im looking for here?) in relationships. Every girl I've dated loved being with me, but eventually got bored (Im assuming) because I let the spark die and leave. I wonder because I have a friend who is very argumentative with relationships and his always last much longer than mine. The thing is I've never gotten into an argument with any of them (or an other girls really) before, and Im wondering if this is ok or not. I mean a healthy debate/disagreement is good between two people right? I must be missing something here.
2006-07-24 10:18:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Arguing sparks passion..as long as you are not just picking fights, it's good to stand up for yourself and what you think. And make-up sex is the best!
2006-07-24 10:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by RIVER 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The main thing you have to remember is that no matter what, she is gonna get what she wants, whether you want to give it to her or not. If you think that you are gonna win an argument, you are wrong. You can be right or you can be happy. You won't be both in the same day. Take care!
2006-07-24 17:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Collin R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are.....the next train outta there! Can you imagine how sweet life would be if there was a woman in your life that was easy to get along with. Then imagine it if you have a woman who wants to argue or be mad all the time!! Run, Forrest, Run!!!!!
2006-07-24 17:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay as you are. dont change be yrself you will meet someone who loves you for just you and doesnt wait for that spark to die but will challenge you to carry it on
2006-07-24 17:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋