Question for the guys....?

Question

Wondering...
It seems that by nature most of you guys wanna have as many woman as you can without commitment.
I was wondering, what kinda of woman will it take to make you want to settle down.
If there are any guys out there who are settled down already, tell me what it was about her that made you commit.
What do men have to see in a women to make them want to settle down.

Guys only!!!!

(The most truthful and sensible answer will be awarded ten pts)

Answer 1

Well sometimes it has nothing to do with the girl, it has to do with the guy. Most guys don't really want to "settle down" with a girl for different reasons "sex, quick flings, being single" stuff like that. Then there are the guys who don't want to settle down because they've probably had a bad experience in the past with a relationship. I think it mostly has to do with stuff like that. I've been committed before and what made me commit was just thinking about what i wanted and not what everyone else wanted me to do. That's the main things guys don't do a lot. They'll think about what they want, but involve their friends opinions too much to the point where it isn't their opinion. All men really have to see in a girl to want to settle down is just someone they can have fun with, take out, and think that she's definitely worth it.

Hope this helps

Answer 2

I'm 26 and I just got married five months ago. She and I dated for about a year before marriage, and we say each other just about every day of that year. Gabi and I really liked each other, and we got along great right from the start. She became my best friend, lover, partner ... everything. We never have fights, rarely argue ... we work together better than any other girl I've ever dated. She's intelligent, selfless, attractive, caring, passionate.... One of the things that really tipped me off that we'd be married was that would could spend an entire day together and not feel like we wanted to be doing something else. We talked about what we wanted out of life and found that we wouldn't have to change much about our dreams to bring them together. Compromise comes easy for us, no hard feelings or bitterness about anything we've had to change in order to get where we are. It just ... happened. Probably the same way it does for many others.

Answer 3

I don't want any other girl than my gf. She's my first gf and I never want 2 lose her. I've always said I want 2 wait 4 the right one and I've found her. We've been friends 4 about 6 years and we live down the street from each other and I just fell in love with her this year and now I think she's the most beautiful girl in the world and wouldn't leave her 4 nobody. I really don't know what it is about her I just love her so much.

Answer 4

If a guy doesn't want to settle down in the first place, he isn't the type of guy you'd ever want to settle down with.
Don't try to get a guy to settle down for you, ignore those type of guys.
Look for the guys out there who are looking for true love right from the start, and settle down with one of them.

Answer 5

I am happily married. I was eager to marry my wife because I could be myself around her... she didn't try to change me, or change my looks, clothes, car, job, furniture or anything else about me. If you find a good guy, and you love him, and he can be himself around you without worrying that you're going to want to change him, and without any nagging, and you still respect each other and treat each other right, then that's the kind of girl a guy is likely to marry. In short, do you love him for who he is, or for who you hope he could be?

One caveat to this: most guys under 25 have no serious interest in marriage. The closer they are to 30 or older, the better chance he'll be ready. So if you've got a guy at least 25 who is mature and treats you right, and you treat him right (without nagging or trying to change him), then you're on the right track. Good luck!

Answer 6

To me it was really nothing about her, just my up bringing, i have always been taught to respect every girl as i would my mom, so i know i wouldn't want my dad cheating on my mom so i won't, as well i understand that women are God's creation as well, and should treated as such. But i can name some traits about my gf that attracted her, for one she is smart, she has a sense of humor, she is independent, she loves life, she respects herself, she knows how to treat me and knows how i should treat her, and expects it, she doesn't ask for much and she is very appreciative of even the little things, she isn't materialistic and most of all she believes in God.

Answer 7

Settling down is something m ost people do when they grow older, and become more mature...when you're 18, life is more like a candy store...of course, some guys never REALLY grow up that way...

Answer 8

Ive never been like that...when I'm with a girl...she's the only one and i wont even look at another girl...Ive had my current girlfriend for about 8 months now and I'm very happy with her....i think that some guys want more then one because it makes them feel wanted and loved...they dont feel that way when they only have one girl....that would be my guess...or they are just horn dogs and just want a girl for her looks...and whoever they find attractive they want to have sex with....

just my opinion

Answer 9

I settled down when I got custody of my son and a full time parent. That settled me down real quick

Answer 10

One you can talk with, an intelligent woman, with attitude. One who is not afraid of challenges and who helps achieving them. A woman with initiative. One who fights for what she wants, one who you know will be a good mother. A caring, loving woman. A woman whom you'd be proud to have as a friend and as a wife.