Of course your not overprotective. She shouldn't be doing things like that if she has a man especially not in front of your face. She must not have to much respect for you or herself. Then that makes you look like a fool when everyone seeing how she acting they be looking at you like you crazy.
2006-07-24 10:21:24
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answered by Anonymous
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My best friend is a guy and although we've never done anything more than platonic (we're like brother and sister) we will most certainly kiss each other on the cheek or hug. But if we were to dance, it certainly wouldn't be grinding like you describe, no matter how trashed we got. My best friend knows better than to disrespect my boyfriend and so do I. Plus, the only man I want to grind up on is my boyfriend. I find this odd that she'd do that no matter how long they've been friends (and I've been friends with my best friend for as long as your girl has been friends with hers). I'd tell her while you can appreciate the friendship they share, they stepped over the line with the grinding. Good luck.
2006-07-24 10:23:17
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answered by SuperJenn 4
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You are right to be disturbed. As far as I am concerned she was being disrespectful to you. She should be considerate of your feelings, apologize and not do it agian. She should realize that if you did the same thing with another female, friend or not, that she would also be very disturbed. Even if didn't mean anything and she would never take it any further. The fact that it bothers you is good enough reason not to do it.
2006-07-24 11:24:49
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answered by Anonymous
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First off its pretty gross that she was grinding at a wedding. Second its pretty gross she did it in front of her bf. You are right, she is wrong. Why in the hell would ANYBODY, male or female want to see their bf or gf griding with anyone anywhere ? What she did was not only disrespectful to the bride, groom and all their family and friends but also to you.
2006-07-24 10:22:32
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answered by JustMe 6
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You are right, she should have known better then to behave like that in public. Grinding in public makes a person look cheap and then to top it off it wasn't her boyfriend she was doing this with. You should seriously have a long discussion with her and show her the responses you got to your question. It's all a matter of respect for herself and you.
2006-07-24 10:19:45
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answered by shae 6
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Damn straight?... I mean cause *** on... if the shoe were on the other foot she'd be FURIOUS... Look wit wats goin on today (all the cheactin i mean) people just cant go around doin stuff like that even with cose friends. It makes their partner nervous and even tho she really mite not mean any harm.. u still cant help but to wonder... just tell her how uncomfortable it makees u.. she'll under stand...
2006-07-24 10:24:40
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answered by cvs_milkshake 1
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Depends on your girlfriend I guess. Can you trust her with the friend? if this is the only problem you have like this, I think you're ok. Be firm though, and let her know you didn't like it, and she should back off a bit next time.
2006-07-24 10:19:58
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answered by Christina 3
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Sit down and have a talk with her, tell her how it makes you feel. I don't mind if my husband dirty dances with another female, as long as it's someone we know and there are no hidden messages involved. Every situation is different. Maybe if she knows how you feel then she won't be so quick to do it again.
2006-07-24 10:20:19
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answered by pq4u72 3
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I think your being over protected. You should have some trust in her. Nowadays that's all it is grinding. Nothing more nothing less. See I hate when a guy thinks more of what it actually is.
2006-07-24 10:33:42
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answered by Traviesa 3
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I wouldn't be alright with it, and I don't blame you. Grinding is a dance that is directly sexually suggestive. I'd pretty much be pissed if my boyfriend was sexually suggesting his body to a friend of his.
2006-07-24 10:19:32
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answered by ♥<ŦĦØΛ>♥ 5
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