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Question

For whatever reason, I can't last long, I mean i'm really fast. Rather its masturbating or having sex with a girl, I come really fast. I'm talking 45 seconds to a mintue, sometimes two mintues if I'm lucky. Is this normal??? what can I do to last longer? anyone have any tips or advice please? Please give serious answers only! I really need help, no bs or anything. I want to be able to have sex with my girlfriend and not finish in 2 mintues.

Answer 1

Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual problem, studies suggest. In a survey published in 1999 in the Journal of the American Medical Association, 21% of the 1,410 men (ages 18 to 59) who responded said they had premature ejaculation. (In comparison, only 5% reported an inability to get or maintain an erection, and another 5% reported low desire.) Other studies have put the percent of men with premature ejaculation as high as 75%.

This problem is more common among younger men, although some men in their thirties, forties and fifties have premature ejaculation.
Behind the inability to endure can be many factors. Some men ejaculate too quickly due to an innate "reflex" or physiological predisposition of the nervous system. Sometimes, too-fast ejaculation can be a side effect of taking certain drugs -- even over-the-counter ones such as cold pills. Stress on the job or in a relationship can set up a guy to climax too fast, too.

In other men, the condition is caused by a serious psychological condition such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, or the result of a physical problem, such as a urinary tract infection. Still others haven't learned to manage their bodies' reactions properly during sexual arousal.

Please seek professional help. Some links are given below.

Answer 2

Well I don't know if youare old enough to go to a porn shop, but they sell gels there that decreas sensitivity to that area to help you hold off longer. If you are under 18 (21 in some states) and cannot get into a porn shop, you will have to do it the old fashioned way. Now I am a girl, but I have many guy friends, and they and my boyfriend tell me that the best way a guy can last longer is through practicing with masturbation. When you get close, but have not reached the "point of no return" stop, let yourself calm down for a minute, then start again. Basically when you get close to an orgasm you need to do something to bring yourself off from that brink. Also, my boyfriend gave this tip, don't let your girlfriend give you any oral action before sex, or if she does, go ahead and have an orgasm that way to get the quick one out of the way, then maybe you can last longer during sex. Make sure she gets as many as you do though! Its only fair!! Good luck!!

Answer 3

This sounds like a joke answer, but it's really the only thing you can do (besides medical assistance):

When you are getting close (so, like 10 seconds in) just think of something nasty. Think of a pig in the mud, a fat girl taking a dump, anything but the task at hand. Meanwhile keep slammin' away. If your mind isn't into it, you'll be able to stave it off for a good while (though whether this will make you last another 1 minute or 10 minutes, I don't know).

Answer 4

Its not as abnormal as you think it is, really most men go a couple of minutes at best. Thats one thing that makes foreplay so important to a woman, the closer she is to getting 'there' when you start the quicker she will get there. Not to mention that you'll have good days and bad ones. Plus how long does it take you to recover? If its quick but you can do it again quick then its even less of a big deal. There was actually a question posted, I think yesterday about this and you'd be surprised at some of the answers, keep in mind some of them are complete crap (LOL). Here is the link to that question:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Arx4tl2J7jK0Dz9rYjlDWcvsy6IX?qid=20060723213816AAUfbHY

Heres a better link, check this one out:

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/43/1685_51204.htm

And to the slapping and hair pulling man, i'd have 3 minutes of sex with him ONE time, thats bull! Not to mention most women don't want marathon sex, you gotta pee sooner or later, several shorter ones are much more comfortable.

Answer 5

Ok I am going to give you a serious answer. It is very normal for a guy to finish very quickly, because you are very excited. This is what you do, I am saying this from personal experience, try before you have sex, if you know its gonna happen, try masturbating once or twice, then when she is there just do your thing. But if you do not know that it is gonna happen, and it just happens, when you are having sex clear your mind of all sexual things, and if you feel that you are gonna bust, stop, tell her to change position, and or swing with her without sliding out. Do that for a few seconds to a minute, try slapping that azz to take her and your mind off of what is happening, and pulling hair, and also kissing very vigorous. After you feel that it is ok, continue with the penetration, and do this until you are tired, and once that happens do what ever makes you more excited and get your nut.
I hope this helps you out as it has made me a 3 hour man instead of 5 minutes. This shiit blows their mind, and exhausts them, and also satisfies them ,along with your desires, and it also intensifies your desire for her. Also try foreplay before, this usually lasts awhile, when she is giving oral don't let her do it to you very long. Also while you are pumping do it slowly.

Answer 6

Ok you need learn how to control yourself. What I suggest is when you masturbate stop when you feel the urge to come. Then start up again. Just do that a few times until you feel it's been long enough then finish. You have to learn control. Everyone knows when they are going to come you just have to learn control and how to stop it. So the only way is to pratice on prolonging it. Good luck! Oh yeah you could try a cock ring as well.

Answer 7

I think that's the most time anyone has said or typed some form of the word serious in a paragraph. I seriously think you deserve an award.

Answer 8

Yes. Start with foreplay, maybe oral sex for her. Once she is satisfied then worry about yourself. Trust me she won't mind how long/short you take. She'll love you for it.

Answer 9

when you feel it coming, stop, put your thumb on the tip and press for a while. Relives the tension. Oh, and then there are some numbing creams, makes you less sensitive. I think SupriseParties have web site w. a lots of this stuff.

Answer 10

Stop masturbating for a while. Pace yourself during sex. Not everything is a race.