Can I find true love?

Question

I am 27, female with a gsoh and I run my own business. No kids.

Answer 1

Sure you will.
I am 30, male. I run my own business too and no kids either.

Answer 2

Don't worry about it once you hit your 30's you stop worrying about stuff like that and you become comfortable with yourself.
I am just curious, What is a gsoh?

Answer 3

hello i see you have a head onyour shouldders. thats what i like.
a business what is it? me 37 single looking and a business lady is perfect. Goals but im lost on the gsoh. What is that? and would kid s ever be in your future?

Answer 4

of course you can find true love!!!

Are you making an effort to be in the right place at the right time? Or are you just sitting at home waiting for a knock on the door?

Answer 5

No you wont ! you give out too much info to guy's (& Girls) & sound desperate.. Dont tell them you have your own business - if say's ££$$££$$ to freeloaders, & 27 with no Kid's - you are getting on a bit... Lie first tell them you are 23, Blonde , Secretary, single parent. God I fancy you myself now.. !! haha!
Good Luck

Answer 6

I've seen businesses like that. 'No kids'. Or sometimes 'Only two in the shop at a time'. Wait 'til you have three and have to leave one of them outside.

Answer 7

You will definetaly find true love! everyone does even I have. There's someone for everyone, you just got look for that special someone, even if you have to wait a while. But don't worry I believe you will find true love. Good luck.

Answer 8

I think a better question to ask yourself is 'What is love?' What I'm about to show you is a post that I previously made that goes into great detail about my thoughts on the topic of love. First, I need to make it clear that I think love is an ideal.

So if it's not real, then why do we use this word? Well let's dissect the word "love" itself so that we may understand its' meaning together shall we? Here are the first two results (that deal with the definition of love I'm referring to) from Dictionary.com:


1 A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.

2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
Note how they are both describing the same thing, and are without discrimination towards sexual preference, but use completely different words to do it.

Out of these two, which would you choose to use if you were asked the definition of love? I'm willing to bet that most if not all women, and maybe some men would certainly choose 1. Should I explain why? I don't think I have to, but just to make my point clear, I will.

1 uses nice, almost sincere sounding words to describe this phenomenon we call love. It leaves you feeling clean and with a clear conscience, whereas 2 most likely makes you feel a bit dirty for describing it in such a way. (I realize their are people out there that won't have this problem, and I applaud them for that.) Doesn't that seem strange, considering the fact that they are both indeed two descriptions of the same exact meaning of the word? So why would 1 make you feel one way, while 2 makes you feel a complete other? I know I'm going to get technical here, but bear with me.

Religion, parents, school, and possibly even TV (if you watch the right channels anymore) all have an effect on the way you think. They have an effect on the way you see things, and the way you respond to these things. From the moment your little baby brain is able to comprehend meaning, to this very second, you are being persuaded by something or someone to believe in one thing or another.

"But I'm just sitting here at the computer..." you say to yourself. Duh, but what I'm saying is that you're always comprehending things. Your brain is always comprehending what your eyes see, what your nose smells, what your hands feel, etcetera. The very words you're reading right now are words that you wouldn't be able to understand if you couldn't comprehend the meaning of each one. I think you get my point.

Parents teach you just about everything, but for now, let's just go with the right from wrong aspect. School is essentially meant for learning schoolwork, but it also teaches right from wrong as well. TV shows like Sesame Street (I think that's how you spell it) and Barney do the same, but I have a feeling anyone who has read this far is a little old for that. While religion teaches you about God, it also has, in my opinion, the heaviest impact on the way you think and perceive things. That is, if you are religious.

Now, without going too much deeper into this... I have no doubt that one or more of these four things have implied in their teachings vulgar or otherwise negative connotations to words like "sex" and "desire," but then turn around and talk about how wonderful love and friendship can be. Confused? Then they accomplished their mission.

As far as I'm concerned, 2 is the closest definition I've ever seen for "love," because of its' use of the words "desire" and "attraction." They are the two base feelings one feels for someone when we believe we are "in love" with them. If you deny that, you're lying to me, and to yourself.

Now we bring this whole thing full circle. The truth is, there really is no perfect way to describe the word "love," because no one has ever truly experienced it. It's just a word we use to describe that intense attraction and desire we have for someone that we just don't feel as much of for everyone else.

Don't get me wrong though. I'm not opposed to love in any way at all. It's a necessary evil if you will, an ideal that needs to be believed in, a reason for sanity. Just like we need to have faith in whatever religion we may believe in, we need to have faith in this ideal. Without it, we would simply regress back into the primal animals that we evolved from.

So, if you've actually read all that, I'm impressed. To answer your question directly now, I would say that nothing is impossible. So yes, if you believe in the ideal of love, it's possible.

Answer 9

Yes, you can find true love. But quit looking for it....because when you look for something you can never find it....and when you quit looking and you least expect it....your find your true love. Good Luck:)

Thanks for the 2 points.

Answer 10

Hi heres a sobering thought; there are just as many men as there are women looking for true love .....I should know! I'm hoping fate plays its part and pretty damn soon!