i need advice?

Question

ok here it goes my gf thought we broke up because i am at work alot and we dont get to talk much so she went out last night and cheated on me with some other guy then calls me up this morning and told me that it was because she thought we broke up and so i was like u should've known better then that then she called me again and said that the reason was because he was drunk and would not let up now she is leavin me msgs and wanting me to forgive her i dont kno what to do or believe so if anyone could give me their opinion i would greatly appiciate it

Answer 1

ok look ive done that be4 n i did it because i thought my bf was cheating on me i didnt wanna look stupid if i were to find out that he cheated on me so what i did was tell him that i cheated on him because i thought that if i told him that he would fess up to cheating on me because i thought he was he didnt confess to nething wen i told him so i felt stupid n i realized that he wasnt cheating n it was just me being insecure my bf forgave me but i never confessed that i had lied just to try to catch him in the act ur gf might have done that im not saying she didnt cheat on u but at least let her explain im a female so i kno how females are u should really let her explain herself oooh n by the way thats how i was with my boyfriend too i called him i text him i went to his house i did everything to try to get him bak n luckily it worked!! give her another chance!

Answer 2

Honey she has got to be joking, how can U confuse breaking up with I'm going to work. She is so full of it. I bet a $100.00 she cheated with a bumm who has no Job. I think U should tell her to loose ur number and go back with the nonworking dude. And did U think of what kind of lady U have that would sleep with someone she doesn't know in that way. Sex is suppose to be with the one U love or at least close. She just ran out and slept with this guy that damnear raped her huh? Leave her high and I would say dry but she has a wet tail already. Don't give her anymore explanations she don't deserve it or U for that matter. Find someone that loves U and will understand a working man. Good Luck!

Answer 3

I think your girlfriend has put this question on here too. In the question she said that it was just a drunken one night stand.

You've got to decide what you want. Once the line of fidelity has been crossed there is no turning back. Since she's just a sometime girlfriend, is she worth all of this emotion?

Sounds like she needs more than you can give at this time. Maybe it would be better to cut her loose on the girlfriend part for the time being.

Answer 4

Sounds like she wants her cake, and eat it too!

If the communication between you is so bad, that she couldn't even ask you about the status of the relationship (and obviously didn't really want to know...), then in this case, I would say let her go. But, at least either call or write; let her know some way, like, "..when you cheated on me, I felt hurt / angry....don't think we have much of a relationship"...etc

The guy may have been drunk (I've heard THAT ONE before), but still, it "takes two to tango". Sounds like she just wanted an excuse to make it with this guy, and then realized how stupid she had been....

Answer 5

Forgive her, and in the future work on improving the communication between you two. Thats one of the most important parts of any relationship, as u probably have heard many times....

But if she ever gives u crap like that again then think seriously about ending it.

Answer 6

She keeps coming up with a different excuse for doing what she did just goes to show you that she did what she did because she could not because of those pathetic excuses she gave you. If she loved or cared about you she wouldn't have cheated on you, knowing that you weren't broken up. She knew you weren't broken up she was just using that as an excuse. Don't beleive her. If she truely love or cared about you she would have never hurt you. You don't hurt the people you love.

Answer 7

She is giving you two many excuses and explanations. Let her go she is lying. If a female can't understand that you have to work and your time is limited, she is selfish and doesn't deserve you. But you do need to play your part and call her just to say hey. Text message her at least.

Answer 8

Get on with your job and look for higher quality ladies to date - bottom line, move on!

Answer 9

Move on...the damage is done. If she was that quick to act then I don't think it's worth wasting your time.

Answer 10

give her 1 more chance after that dump her

Answer 11

Talk it over...maybe give another chance and give her more attention...if it happens again then dump her!