When i want to talk to my bf i always have to be the one who calls him!! he used to call me all the time but now he dont!! I dont want to be mean to him but i dont want to always call him........he needs to call me sometimes?!* Should i just keep callin him or no???
2006-07-24 09:50:44 · 43 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U need to talked to him. Tell him u feel neglected. Tell him to call U for a change. piece of cake
2006-07-24 09:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 15⤊ 4⤋
I think everyone has been in this position, you really shouldn't be the one to call him all the time, he should call you to. I mean u guys are in a relationship and things should be mutual. What I suggest that u do is don't call him for 1 day or so and see what happens, most guys will wonder and worry about whats goin on that they will call u, and dont pick up the phone right away, maybe the 2 or 3rd time. Then when u finally answer the phone tell him how u feel and that u also want him to call u, that u don't always wanna b the one to call him it works both ways in a relationship, if u give guys a tastee of their own medicine they usually learn their lesson, and one more thing he knows he doesn't have to call u cause if u dont hear from him he knows that ull call him, its become a habit break it and then see who calls who.
2006-07-24 09:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation, but it was the other way around. He always called me. Maybe he felt the same way you do. I don't know. Tell him that it isn't fair that you always have to call, this is a relationship, it shouldn't be one sided. He should call you sometimes, and you should call him sometimes. 50/50 that is what relationships are all about......being equal and understood. Express how you feel! Good Luck:)
2006-07-24 09:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise not to keep calling him. If a guy likes you enough, he'll call you. If he asks you to call at a certain time, a few times, that may be alright, but a man should do the calling. I may be old fashion, but this is always in style with me....let a man chase you! If he is truly interested, he will. Don't chase any man!
2006-07-24 09:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ex New Yorker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels secure enough in the relationship that he doesn't feel that he needs to pursue you anymore. Judging by the fact that you still continue to call him, I'd say he is right to think so. Ask yourself this: What is there to be gained from something you already have?
If you stop calling him, he may begin to wonder what happened, and then call you. Then again, he may not be interested enough to care anymore, and if that's true, it's time to move on.
2006-07-24 09:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - keep calling.
Every day.
Every hour.
Every minute.
Don't even hang up, just stay on the phone for 24 hours a day.
Stop calling him, and he'll start calling you. It's that easy. That is...If you could find the strength to WAIT more than 10 minutes for a call. :-P
2006-07-24 09:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! deffinetly stop calling him!! like asap!! he needs to kno how u feel wen he doesnt call so stop calling him until he calls u n den wen he asks y havent u called him be like "oh cause i want u to feel how i feel wen u dont call me, even tho i wanna talk to u i need u to understand where im coming from" so yea do that stop calling him for lilke 2-3 days n if he doesnt call u after that call him n be like "so its like that?? if i dont call u ur just not gonna call me??" n if he says "well i thought u didnt wanna talk to me" be like "so is it that u dnt wanna talk to me wen u dont call me??" lol long but it should work!!
2006-07-24 09:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S WHAT I'VE BEEN GOING THROUGH LATELY WHAT I DID IS I DIDN'T CALL HIM FOR A WHOLE DAY AND HE CALLED ME QUICK ASKING WHY I HAVEN'T CALLED AND I EXPLAINED TO HIM THAT I FELT HE HADN'T BEEN CALLING ME MUCH IF IT WASN'T FOR ME CALLING HIM WE WOULD NOT SPEAK AND HOW HE FELT WHEN IT WAS DONE TO HIM IT WORKED FOR ME TRY IT I'M SURE HE'LL BE CALLIN MORE OFTEN. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-24 09:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't keep calling. He probably doesn't call you because he knows you will call him. I would take a serious look at where this relationship is going.
2006-07-24 09:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop calling him. He might not be a fan of the phone and you might be driving him crazy. Don't call him a few times and he'll realize he misses you and he'll be calling soon enough.
2006-07-24 09:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Digger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him for a while. That would probably be better. You probably never give him a chance to call. But don't worry about that kinda stuff. Its not a relationship breaker or anything! =)
2006-07-24 17:21:35 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ Valley Girl ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋