is he always in my face? Im lost i don't understand What the hell do he want with me if he got all these bitches? I'm pretty so its nothing and hes not my man. Is he trying to make me feel bad? Do he want me to care?
2006-07-24 09:47:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should kick him in the nuts and then let him go see his doctor.
2006-07-24 09:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by thisisme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey Honey, sorry for the problems. I actually know a guy like yours, so I am going to try and help.
I think part of the reason your man flaunts that he has all these girls around is so that he feels good about himself. Let me guess...he is the type who likes the spotlight on him, center of attention, he may be very competitive?
He wants you to feel like you are lucky in the sense that he could have all these other ladies but he chose you. Is he wrong? In a sense he is because I am sure that he makes you uneasy, and maybe you are wondering in the back of your mind is he flitting around on you?
The guy that I know who is like this does this to his own girlfriend. She did get fed up with it, and actually said to him, if you think you are so great just go ahead and sleep with them. This guy also was never interested in anyone else's life except for his own. As long as everything was all about him he was ok.
Now I am not sure this describes your man and if it fits the MO but I am sure some of the things are probably ringin true for you.
Ohh sorry you said its not your man, am I bad? Well the same still applies. He wants you to think that he is popular, and again has all these girls around, but he is talking to you.
I am not sure you would want to give this guy a chance...There is a potential for this sort to be on the controlling side. They figure since all the girls are after them that the men are after you. What he will fear about you is the kind of stuff he is probably guilty of. Lets just say he accuses you of cheating or asks where you are, or even trys to control who you are going out with...Most likely he is the one cheating on you.
Its so very hard to tell. My instinct would be not to pursue this one. You seem totally mature and that you are not into the game playing type. You are seeing right through his actions. Keep that strong head on your shoulders girl. He probably also really has the hots for you because you won't give him the time of day. Guys always love a challege.
Good luck girl and awesome question!!
2006-07-24 16:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by katisadiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Do he want me to care?" Do you really speak this way? The correct English is, "Does he wish me to care?" And I'd ask you, "care in what way?" You didn't say how old you are, nor how old he is. Is he ill? Does he need physicial care? Maybe he is looking for household help, because he is ill. You have this under Singles and Dating so I'm guessing you may be thinking he is interested in dating you. Doubt it. If you think other women are bitches, either he just wants in your panties, or finds you amusing. In any event, he's not interested in any sort of social relationship with you --- you're probably too crude and uneducated... you might be okay for a casual screw, but nothing else.... sorry, honey.
2006-07-24 16:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he is doing is making you feel like i have plenty of other options what you should do is ignore it and just say wow then why r u w me? tell him go go right ahead and lets see who will be laughing in the end? hes just making u jelous dont fall into it he likes u just acting like he dont care
men are idiots but we have to sometimes think like them to figure them out
2006-07-24 16:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by BLISS IS MY HAPPYNESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure what he'd like more than anything is to see you speaking the language correctly.....go to school and learn to be literate.
2006-07-24 16:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him to leave or stop it he wants your atention hoping u would fall 4 him to
2006-07-24 16:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go your own way baby!
2006-07-24 16:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to already know the answer
2006-07-24 16:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Soldier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN ALWAYS WANT WHAT THEY CAN'T HAVE
2006-07-24 16:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to **** off
2006-07-24 16:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋