my wife doesnt please me enough. i am african and we usually have more than 1 wife. here in the us we are limited to one. i want more. should i tell them and maybe we could all live together? please help
2006-07-24 09:39:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe you should go live in Utah. Or borrow the first guys gun and bullet.
2006-07-24 09:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by thisisme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't live with all of them at the same time. Also, you don't really have to do the "right thing" like break up with your girlfriends because you are married. What if you and your wife are not really meant to be? But, you'll have to choose which one of these girls you're willing to spend the rest of your life with. Who do you love most? If not your wife, tell her how you feel about the two of you together. Tell her that she might get hurt more if she's with you and not getting back the love she's giving to you. It's better that way than cheating on her. What if your wife is cheating on you, what would you feel? Put yourself in her shoes. This time you'll have to think really hard, don't be impulsive. Gooc Luck.
2006-07-24 16:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by magnus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang on a sec,im african and here every1 has 1 wife its onlythe muslims which have multiple.Ditch the girlfriends if you really love your wife ,when you married her you kind of told her she is special out the millions of women in the world .if she is not satisfying you enough talk to her abt it and im sure the two of you can solve this problem.
2006-07-24 16:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Larrymore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say stick with one, doesnt have to be your wife (remember, there is divorce in the US). Because if you have 3 wives, thats more than twice not being pleased.
2006-07-24 16:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three girlfriends and one wife.........and you need help........with what? how to please all of them? LOL........Why did you get married if your not satisfied with one woman to make another problem in this world for hurting families?Sure I think you should tell them all maybe at least one of them already knows.I hope you don't have any children to screw up also.Your nuts if you think all of you could live together and be one big happy family or what ever it should be called.If you all do I hope it's in another country not in our good old USA.
2006-07-25 21:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!! You need only one wife and if she can't please you ask yourself why she cannot. Get couseling and communicate more with her. Are you treating her the best way that you should? Is she a good woman? If all of these things are in place, please save your marriage! Obviously you don't have any feelings for these other women because you are messing with their emotions. If you want to mess around, please get a divorce-don't do this to yourself or to others-it may backfire!
2006-07-24 16:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by crazydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever...your asking for help...that should be the least of your worries.....and good luck with trying to find the other wives that will understand. and then the judge that doesnt put your a** in jail....because here ...IT IS ILLEGAL.......another thought...maybe you should start your own cult......
2006-07-24 16:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they will allow it. go for it. Just make sure they are pure african women. African American women don't play that stuff. You will wake up one morning with something missing.
2006-07-24 16:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have gotten married in the first place if you have no plans to be monogamous.
You need a doctor to check your head. There's something inherently wrong with you to not be satisfied with one partner.
2006-07-24 17:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get all 4 women in the room and tell them your great idea, and see what they say. Good luck.
2006-07-24 16:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋