Am HIV+ got it from my late partner and now am scared to commit
2006-07-24 09:36:32 · 18 answers · asked by JUDY ZAMBIA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It is not AIDS,it is still in the HIV status and am taking ARV's to contain it.I have since stopped dating because i do not think i can take rejection though i would really love to meet someone who will not judge me and understand that i can not do certain things as i would not want infect anyone in my life or indeed get re inffected.I have since lost my uterus to cancer and it has not been easy but am alive.Am so full of life
2006-07-24 11:42:34 · update #1
Oh sweetie - you can absolutely find genuine love and settle down to lead a normal life. There are many medications that will help you along with your life at this time, as well as many outlets to meet other people who are willing to live and love someone who has HIV. Look into local support groups, meets, etc.. Don't let anyone tell you it can't happen, because it can.
2006-07-24 09:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Scarlett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i'm no longer interested in maximum men, in certainty very few entice me....nonetheless, love might want to be wonderful"...You sound like a woman who can make an fantastically good fulfillment of being committed to at least one guy. (some human beings might want to wish this to be interior the kind of marriage.) subsequently, assume to experience a void in case you go by ability of existence while not having got here upon this particular man or woman. On an fantastically deep element, you have not reached your actual happiness. you're, however, nonetheless dealing with existence so that you should no longer rigidity out over this enormous total destiny. it is compared to there is a demonstration that announces, "it truly is it: those are your playing cards". We keep sparkling by using what's around the nook. the different belongings you element out about your existence sound fairly sturdy, you're doing a lot more effective then many dreary human beings in relationships. Being unmarried in its self is amazingly worthwhile. you should outline to your self different stages of happiness/delight. If, faster or later once you're older and also you reside more effective or a lot less the way you're literally...yet another courting in the back of you...desire for assembly someone interior the destiny, so be it, it fairly is the kinda existence many human beings stay. i imagine that a sturdy body of options is to have popularity yet also comprehend that there is continually more effective.
2016-11-25 21:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bless you I so feel for you judy you really deserve to find someone and there are so many people out there that a littel thing like hiv wont stop them wanting to be with you (ok its not a small thing but you know what I mean) I would join a group in your area and start to meet people my grandfather had cancer so I know how scared you must have been he had half his tummy removed 2 weeks ago .Please just get out there and meet new people you will find someone special and do not let the negative people put you down you deserve a happy ending
2006-07-24 22:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you CAN find love and have a life but it wont be normal. You need to accept that you wont be dating and having relationships in the same way that most other people do but that does not devalue your experience! Your future relationships will most likely be different from your past ones but that does not mean that they wont be as deep and as meaningful as so called "normal relationships"!!
And sweetheart, we are ALL scared to commit.
good luck x
2006-07-24 09:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, it is possible to live a normal life and my heart really goes out to you. There are people out there who don't want sex and just want to be with someone. If you are all for that then talk to that individual about your situation and plans for the future. You can adopt if you like, just try not to feel that this is the "end all be all". I believe that you can even ask God for healing of the disease (if you believe in him), and he will remove it (God can do anything!) Just pray about it and until then, ask God to send you a greater love for yourself b/c when people have terminal illnesses like these they can become depressed. God bless you in your future
2006-07-24 09:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by crazydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can absolutely find true love even though you have HIV. I was watching a show not long ago about a lady who was HIV+ and she meant her husband when she was really sick from it, and they have now been together 10 years and everyday is a miracle to them.
You will find that true love, and they will love you for you.
best wishes and take care :)
2006-07-24 09:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think that it is possible, you just need to make sure that you are upfront with them from the very beginning, and leave it up to them. I am sure that it is hard for you to commit but you just need to open yourself up and try not to be so guarded, just remember there is someone out there for everyone you just need to open your eyes up to all the possibilities. Good luck!
2006-07-24 09:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didn't say if u had full blown aids yet yes it is possible to meet some one get to know some one first and tell them as soon as ur ready to before u have any sexual contact use extra precautions also
2006-07-24 10:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it is possible for everyone. If someone loves you they will accept you as you are. If they dont, are they worthy of your love anyway? There are ways to overcome most things if you remain positive.
Positivity attracts positivity-very true
2006-07-24 09:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by gip55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be difficult because you should disclose to any prospective long term partner. The right one will stick around so good luck.
2006-07-24 10:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋