On Sat night my bf broke up with me and he didn't explain why. The way he brokeup with me was so dumb b/c he said we need to take a break. Then he says I don't want a gf right now.
2006-07-24 09:36:18 · 7 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys usually say this to let you down easy...when they say they don't want a girlfriend right now it normally means they don't want to be in a relationship with one girl...they want to see what else is out there...my advice have fun being single...spend time with friends...if it's meant to be then you two will get back together
2006-07-24 09:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did explain why, it just isn't what you want to hear so you didn't hear it. He doesn't want a gf right now, thats why, it could be a lot worse. Not to mention that the why doesn't matter anyway, people get all hung up on thinking things would be better if they knew why but the fact is it doesn't change anything, things still are what they are regardless of the reason.
How to get over it....well it takes time, but time in itself doesn't fix anything, its what you do with the time that counts. if you spend that time doing nothing but thinking about what was yesterday that is how you will spend your tomorrows. you have to grieve, but give yourself a limit, after that push yourself forward, no matter how much you don't want to, keep busy doing things that make you happy, at first it will serve no real purpose except distracting your brain, but eventually you will find joy in them again.
take care of yourself physically, make great meals just for you, don't start eating junk just because its just you eating it, read some great books, listen to great music, DANCE (nobody can be sad when they dance) even if its home by yourself, shop, spend time with friends and family, volunteer in your community with people or dogs if you prefer. do the things you gave up for your relationship. soon you will find yourself understanding what went wrong and ready to try again. good luck, be patient with yourself, and remember it will get better!
2006-07-24 16:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait a little while n if he doesnt come back to u in like a week u should just start talking to other guys because thats probably one of the easiest ways to get over some1 n if u feel that u cant talk to other people u can!! trust me n if he says that he doesnt want a gf rite now then f**k him u dont need him just talk to other guys! oooh yea but first u should deff. have a cry session...make a sad songz cd n just cry everything out THEN GO TALK TO OTHER GUYS!!
2006-07-24 16:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break ups are never good... Time is the medicin...Time will heel it up... On your part you just need to do one thing...i.e. stop thinking right now and dont even try figure out what might have gone wrong...
2006-07-24 16:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by DrAgOn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it by going out parting there are other fishes in the sea if my b-friend told me that i would have said i was thinking the same and i would say f**k it find someone better
2006-07-24 16:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy and keep reminding yourself of all of the things you did not like about him. Do not go running back or ask why do your best to move on.
2006-07-24 16:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont get over it if its a bad one. and yours wasnt bad it was stupid. u will be fine princess
2006-07-24 16:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋