i'm 14 years old but my mom still thinks that i'm still young , i'm not supposed to get to the house late as my friends , i can't talk to girls , i can't do anything . what i do to make her know that i'm old now ?
2006-07-24 09:28:09 · 14 answers · asked by midodisho 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take little steps. Keep you curfews and be on your best behaviour for a while (at least a month). Don't break any rules and prove you're responsible (help around the house etc). Then, when she's really happy with you, ask her to let you go to a party or something. Go on her terms and don't be late when you get back. She'll see she can trust you and that you can take care of yourself and next time, she'll let you do more things and let you stay out later. Just take small, small steps for a while and build her trust in you. Remember: one catches more flies with a teaspoon of honey than with a barrel of vinegar...
2006-07-24 09:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by ioa_3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...YOU ARE YOUNG. You are a baby. Your curfew should be 8:00. Your mother loves you. You won't understand any of this until you are about 21 or 22. In the mean time:
Try acting like an adult. Make a list of things you think you are old enough to do. Have your mom do the same thing. Then sit down and compare lists.
2006-07-24 16:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going thru that 2 u need 2 jus tell her I'm growing up and you need 2 accept that.......my parents usually don't accept me talking to them like that but i told them they need to listen b-cause b-4 they kno it u will -b- moving out and they will still think of you as a little boy ........u should jus sit down and tell them like an ADULT would....
2006-07-24 16:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by wade5k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SUGGEST THAT U EXPLAIN TO UR MOM THAT U R OLDER. WELL ACTUALLY UR A YOUNG TEENAGER SHE SHOULD ALLOW U TO TALK TO GIRLS BY NOW SHE JUST LOVE U A LOT AND DON'T WANT U TO GET HURT
2006-07-24 16:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might feel more comfortable if she knows who you hang out with. See if she'd mind if "the gang" hung out at your house. If she gets to know them and sees how they act and what they do, she might ease up a little.
2006-07-24 16:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PROVE THAT YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH .DO THINGS THAT WILL SHOW HER YOU ARE MATURE ENOUGH AND LET HER MEET YOUR FRIENDS SO SHE KNOWS THEY ARE GOOD KIDS .AS FAR AS GIRLS GO YOU SHOULD STAY AWAY THEY ARE EVIL !!! I HAVE 4 DAUGHTERS .I KNOW .WAIT TIL YOUR A LITTLE OLDER FOR GIRLS 15 OR 16 . IM JUST KIDDING ABOUT GIRLS BEING EVIL I HOPE THIS HELPS!!
2006-07-24 16:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by TRACY N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you'll have to wait until you get old. 14 is still a kid.
2006-07-24 16:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are young...i know you dont want to hear that but its true.....dont be in such a rush....youre not as grown up as you think you are and trust me when you do get there it can be a real pain.....what i wouldnt give to be able to play again with no responsibility
2006-07-24 16:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by cookiesmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you, but 14 ain't old.
2006-07-24 16:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by yo_momma_is_sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i 'm 13 my parents are the same way i just talk to boys at my nana house
2006-07-24 16:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by *Chocalate Drop* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋