Sometimes when me and my girlfriend have sex, she starts crying after she has an orgasim. Why?

Question

She said this is the first time she has ever cried after reaching a sexual climax. No, I'm not hurting her, nothing kinky going on.

Answer 1

I would say that it is an emotional release, uncontrolled and unintentional - but a good thing. She reached a very pleasurable state. (lucky her!) Did you ever hear the saying "tears of joy?" It might be that you were so good that the tears just flowed naturally. :) Sometimes when I'm sucking a really big dick my eyes water and tear, and it's a good thing. When that happens, I just keep on going and enjoy it. :) Unless she is complaining (or totally silent) afterwards (after sex) then it is really not a problem. Good luck.

Answer 2

WOW! that must have been some powerful orgasm.The sexual response cycle works like this:

1) A woman feels a slight interest in having a sexual experience and feels a
"vague stirring" phase.

2) She may become aroused and feel actual desire for sexual expression.

3) She will experience excitement, during which many physiological changes
occur, followed by heightened arousal at the plateau phase.

4) Then comes her orgasm, at which point she releases all the pent-up energy
and blood engorgement that has accumulated.

5) She finds a resolution and sense of fulfillment.

All along these phases are indicators, such as change in color, increased breathing, swelling of genital tissue and hardness and wetness of the male and female sex organs. Throughout this process of arousal through to the "pop" of orgasm, energy is amassing and must be discharged. That energy may take the form of whatever the body is capable of releasing so that it may show up as crying.

Answer 3

Yeah this is not too common however it does happen. I answered this once before. My Wife has done it as well althoguh not every time. Sex is truely an emotioanl experience as well as a physical one. For the woman it is often much more attached ot emotions than it is for the man. The ability or the event of letting go control and letting yourslef release as in an orgasm can bring up a flood of emotions, totall non related but they just flow out form the sudenn physical release she has jsut experienced.

Answer 4

Women get emotionally attatched to their men in and out of the bedroom. When they get attatched in the bedroom, they have a tendency to be emotional. Most men have sex to get their nut off. Women have sex for the intimacy and the emotional bonding and the orgasim of course. For her tears during sex, that just means that she loves you and she is overwhelmed at what you two have together. The sex you two have together is bonding.

Answer 5

in case you manage her in man or woman with the form appreciate you confirmed her in that short paragraph, no ask your self she is crying. Are you truly that insensitive that all and sundry you could communicate about is how her crying annoys you? And calling her names because of it? it type of feels to me that she knows you do not favor to make certain her cry, it is why she is going in the different room. There ought to correctly be a lot and far of motives she is crying. possibly she feels forced into having sex and that's tearing at her, per chance she feels in charge, per chance... i will't even commence to guess. communicate which includes her. do not accuse her of something. Ask her what's the remember. Crying isn't being somewhat one. it is a demonstration that something is incorrect.

Answer 6

No you aren't hurting her, its just an emotional thing and a lot of women react this way. Its a good thing and perfectly normal, don't worry about it, just hold on to her. Some women actually laugh hysterically, some are very quiet, some do all of it and its all good and its all ok.

Answer 7

Sometimes, especially during certain cycles of the month, women can be much more emotional than usual (and no, I am not talking about when she is on her period, but maybe when she is ovulating). I am sure it is a hormonal thing and nothing psychological.

Answer 8

If ur not hurting her that u know of then its probably just a way that her body reacts. I dont think its something to be worried about unless its psycological or something. Just talk to her about it and ask her to be completely honest cuz well physically she could be in pain but she's just not telling you...
Good Luck! :)

Answer 9

Sometimes the sensations of orgasm can be so powerful that the woman experiences and overwhelming emotional response as well, thus the burst of tears. You obviously did well.

Answer 10

I guess reaching orgasm can be somewhat spiritual to some people and can give very strong emotion(maybe similar to nirvana)

And that is probably why she cried.

I would not make a fuss about it, if I were you.