I have been dating a guy for a couple of months and the relationship has been progressing. Actully things have been great and we are highly attracted to each other. However, he just let me know that he is bi-sexual. I just honestly don't know how I feel about this and just would like some opinions on my situation.
2006-07-24 09:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by wicked 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
although our situations aren't exactly the same...I've benn dating this woman for 4 months and she told me that she's bi too. I think I'm ok with it as long as the relationship has some groud rules and we've worked on them. she's really interested in adding another woman to our bed. keep an open mind and make sure everybody knows that what happens in the bedroom stays there. I want to be with my girl but obviously am scared that she may not actually need me. I told her that I want to be with her and would do anything for her as long as we keep this experimentation in the bedroom and nothing more comes of it! This is probably not helping you at all but hey..... I'm trying. It may be helping me tho. Thanks! and good luck!
2006-07-24 09:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem w/ gay people, or bi for that matter. But, I could never imagine dating a bi guy. I mean, you wouldn't date a gay guy. It also has to do w/ monogomy too. If you want to be, does he? Then you'd have to worry about him cheating on you with both sexes?!?!?! Anyway, it just doesn't sound like a good idea. Plus, does he spend more time in front of the mirror than you? Good luck w/ that one.
2006-07-24 09:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by detectivegrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i would not be continuing the relationship. I wouldn't want my man dating another man, but if you like that boat ride it. I know it is a really hard decision to make. But think about it, if you love your life. One day, he might want to have a threesome with you and another guy, could you sit there and handle that? Just think it through, your the decision maker. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-24 09:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would be concerned if I were dating a bi-sexual. It could very well be dangerous. I would be worried if one day you two got really close, if you know what I mean, and you wind up getting an STD.
2006-07-24 09:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is worth the risk , this guy can still be doing things withother guys. I think the two of you should just be friends, because his attraction to men will never go away
2006-07-24 09:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Shawnee_ Bonnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine and ,aybe he might let yall hvae a threesome so therefore you like it and so does he. Have fun
2006-07-24 09:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by rebel_sweetheart2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just plain nasty because u dont know how many guys he has kissed,madeout wit or been with
2006-07-24 09:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends about your wishes with him.if you are sure that you care much for him now and will in future, YOU WILL KNOW THE ANSWER!!
2006-07-24 09:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by IcyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be somewhat cautious.
Do ask him if he is monogamous
2006-07-24 09:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mohammed R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know girl that's pretty upsetting
2006-07-24 09:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mizz bossy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋