you tell them that you found out that they go screwing around every guy that walks, how can i go out with someone like that i respect myself. she lied to me this whole time saying that she wasn't that way i didn't have proof until she finally told me that she's been with other guys while she wanted to be with me.
my question is i told her i wasn't interseted and i said to "keep bouncing" did i get the message out that i know she goes from guy to guy like it was nothing?
2006-07-24 08:57:56 · 28 answers · asked by lckyboy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont want someone who has been with everyone.
That saids she has no respect for herself.
Furthermore there are too many diseases out there for you to deal with someone like that!
2006-07-24 08:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whores are people too.
Look, I see all kinds, as an experienced cab driver, I see night walkers all the time out on the streets. Desperation will make a person do things that they don't want to do if they don't know of, or are unable to find an alternative. DO they have a choice...maybe not in their eyes, living day to day on the edge. if they were motivated to do something else, I'm sure they would.
2006-07-24 09:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself in the question, YOU RESPECT YOURSELF. So don't bother with this person who lied to you repeatedly. You told this person to go away and this person should respect that considering she lied to you about her sexual past. You want a good girl, and she is not it. If you love her and you want to make it work with her, then YOU have to see past her faults and former mistakes and start over. But if you cannot get over it, let her go and move on dear. I feel sure that you are more than worthy of a good woman.
Good Luck
2006-07-24 09:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by ssavage23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she 'bounce'? Then I guess so, although, honestly if she really does go from guy to guy she probably isn't half as worried about it as you are and you have probably been replaced by now. You are thinking that your words and insults are going to do her some great damage, and they aren't, but as long as saying them made you feel better thats all that counts. Put is away and move on, good luck!
2006-07-24 09:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting your time with her. If she is looser than you believe is okay and respectable, there is likely nothing you can do to change her...so don't even try. If you want a particular type of woman, and this one doesn't sound like she is that type, keep on hunting until you find her. I can tell you are upset, which I suspect is simply your wounded pride talking.
2006-07-24 09:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been a little more direct. Say, I choose to spend my time with honest people who are monogamous.
That would have hit home better than "keep bouncing".
It leaves no room for gray area.
2006-07-24 09:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man! are you still thinking of her?
anyway this depends on your culture, for some countries it is OK for a girl to be with more than one guy, seems you are of my country, when a girl is out with one guy, then she is considered as "second hand".
my answer, yes, let her keep bouncing, and don't be fool enough to keep her.
2006-07-24 09:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by wick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing right by leaving her. People like that ( sad to say, females, since this is a man's world) are only going to end up alone and used up. Then what are they going to do? You need to find yourself a decent girl.
2006-07-24 09:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mary C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PG doesn't have anything to say I take it.
First, how long have you two been an "item" because if you haven't been, then it's not really up to you to tell her what she can and can't do. If you personally can't handle it, then let her be because you'll bring it up over and over if it bothers you and you can't make it just go away. It all depends on if YOU can accept it. If not, move on.
2006-07-24 09:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I think you definitely got the message out. Now, her understanding is a different matter. She would have to be really stupid not to understand that!
Good Luck man! I'm pulling for you! :)
2006-07-24 08:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋