Me and my girl had sex today for the first time......yes i know i know im an asshole i didnt use a condom......We were 69ing at first then we tried to do it i got it in but only for a lil while then.........we went and took a bath, then we decided to try again and i got it in again and we had sex but i pulled out not right before i came but like 3 mins before like when i felt it boiling up i NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 08:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by datflyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in this situation several times, because my girlfriend and I do not use protection. Follow these steps:
1. Never openly panic. Calm shows your girlfriend how awesome you are under pressure, and that nothing phases you. It will also get her to listen to you more, which is important for step 4.
2. Find out when in her cycle she is. If she is within one week before her period (safest) or four days after (safer), then you're probably OK. If she's in the middle of her period, go to step 3.
3. Seriously recollect how long did you pull out before you came? If it was really three minutes, you're probably safe. Sure there's "pre-ejaculate", but the sperm count is very low. Did she blow you to get you to ***? If yes, ask her if she could taste your "pre-***" when she was blowing you. If she could not, you're safe. If she could, go to step 4.
4. Get her to take a morning after pill. They're about $40. You can go on line to find a clinic near you that will examine and perscribe the pill. She may experience mild nausiea for a day or two, and her period will be out of whack for a cycle or two, but the side effects are not too severe.
You're not an asshole. Condoms are the worst because they diminish the feeling. Ideally she would go on the birth control pill. If not, then you'll need to use a condom when she's in her danger zone. Good luck, I'll be pulling for you.
2006-07-24 09:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dave's Quick Notes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sh*t, that was alot of details. Hang on I need to smoke.
Ok, first of all it's very important in the future to always make yourself stop and get a condom. That being said, there realy is no way to know at this point. Pulling out isn't realy a way of keeping pregnancy from happening. There is always some semen that is released during intercourse. The morning after pill would be smart. Just be more careful in the future!
2006-07-24 08:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to scare myself into quitting. this is gross and not super, yet I saved thinking approximately giving delivery to a nevertheless born or having a new child die in this is crib. this is morbid despite if it made me no longer desire to eliminate darkness from a smoke. i exchange into additionally clinically determined with placenta previa and that i exchange into informed it ought to have been led to from smoking. I study plenty approximately it and that i exchange into afraid of that too... the assumption of a hysterectomy at 22 or bleeding to demise on the transport table are incredibly sturdy scare factors. additionally exchange your habitual... I stop going to the gasoline stations that be responsive to me and constantly had my cigarettes waiting. I blended up the order I do issues (like morning habitual). I additionally stop doing the failings that made me desire a cigarette and when I went out i could definitely dangle to my non-smoking acquaintances so as that i does no longer be tempted. I fell off the wagon a pair cases yet i did no longer enable that make me think of that i ought to easily shop smoking... despite if I had one, i could say that i've got stop and gave it a good extra stable attempt.
2016-10-08 06:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by blumenkrantz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be bcuz there's this thing called Pre-C u m. It does contain sp er m and she MAY become pregnant. Definitely look into the "morning after" pill and lol USE A CONDOM next time.
Good luck! :)
2006-07-24 08:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you pulled out three minutes before but their is such a thing as pre-*** so you better hope especially if your not finacially and physicially ready don't fall for temptation like that again because having kid's is hard if your not prepared
2006-07-24 08:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by apriljunemarch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pulled out 3 min before you came then no shes not, but if there's any chance that you came in her even just the slightest pit yes she could be...A-get the 48hr pill,B-wait and see, and figure it out from there
2006-07-24 08:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest a test and you maybe safe, but there is some chance of her being pregnant. I too suggest the morning after pill. It is safe and wroks well.
2006-07-24 08:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by young at heart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell her mom and embarrass her some more.
before the next time go to Planned Parenthood and grab a handfull of condoms. they give them out for free.
2006-07-24 08:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you put it in and start pumping away there's a risk of her getting pregnant, not to mention some kind of STD.
2006-07-24 08:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could still get pregnant so I suggest she go to a clinic and get some emergency contraceptive...
2006-07-24 08:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋