why is it that when YOU meet someone and there is a mutual connection that ALL kinds of ex-es start calling?

Question

I have had one guy from over ten years ago call and want to just
pick up where HE left off and another one IM me like he never left?

What is up with that????

On the other hand, I told them BOTH that I AM TAKEN

I am........

Answer 1

I have no idea but this always happens to me.:)