She is 13. I have a son with my husband who is 4. My husband and I had some differences we left (me and the kids) We have been trying to work things out but my daughter says she dont want to go back, my 4 year old wants to and it seems like they both hate me right now. I miss my husband, I miss my home, and I love my kids.. I cant seem to make anyone happy. Been living in homeless shelter and I hate it, just like jail.
2006-07-24 08:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, your daughter can't pay your bills or give you the love you husband can give you, but she is your daughter. You, your daughter and your husband need to sit down and talk about the reason why you child doesn't like him. Have you husband spend time with you all on the weekend, not everyday. Allow him to prove to your daughter that he still can be that great and lovely person to all of you. Whatever he has done to make her so upset, he need to talk to her, and understand her, so all of you can start to fix the problem. As for your 4yr old, allow him to spend time with his father. Maybe you all should spend time together having a good time like you all use to....your daughter will start coming around again.
2006-07-24 08:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by hunny_bunny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Must have been some BIG differences for you to leave?
Ask your daughter why she doesn't like your husband. She might have a good reason. But if he is a GOOD husband and a GOOD father to BOTH children -- then go home.
2006-07-24 09:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you talk to your daughter to find out what is at the root of her feelings towards your husband and just take things one step at a time from there. Good luck to you.
2006-07-24 08:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by ModelFlyerChick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how ur daughter feels. but she will eventually get iver it. nobody HATES u they r all just going through a tough time but they need U there with them. u need to do what feels right to u and what will help your children.
Good luck :)
2006-07-24 09:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let them know who is boss. your daughter doesn't make the choices. if living with your husband will improve things, then make it work. i hope and wish the best for y'all.
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