2006-07-24 08:30:19 · 15 answers · asked by pencilnbrush 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really believe she was the one... and now i feel lost
2006-07-24 08:51:26 · update #1
move on darling.. dont hold on too long.. but also dont hold on too little... cry and after you cry smile.. because that is what life is all about.. think about the great times.. and how that person made you better... and that way once you know the better person that you are.. you can realize it and move on .. you ll be alright in no time :) trust me :)
2006-07-24 08:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean a family member died or a g/f left you? Either way the only thing you can do is grieve and wait. Time will dull the pain It will never go away but soon you will be able to think/talk about the person w/o crying and maybe even laugh about good times together. Good luck and I have faith in you and your strength
2006-07-24 15:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by porkchop_sena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts a lot when someone leaves u. Im sorry we can't change that. I have a thery from "the dating diarys" that when someone leaves u it takes at least double the time u went out with them to get over it. My advice Try to forget about it take piano lessons or something to keep ur mind off it!
2006-07-24 15:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a one night stand , every other day for a week , then she , or he as it might be will become a memory all twisted in the hase of enjoying your self , avoid ( friends ) that will remind you that you screw-ed up take a vacation to an exotic island ,, get busy, meet people , and stop dwelling ont the past , there is a d--mn good resaon for them to leave so let them go ...go get drunk first ,, make sure you buy a few packs o condoms , maby u might get lucky
2006-07-24 15:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by miguel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back into the social scene--not necessarily dating, but hanging out with friends. That will take your mind off the heartache. One of the best ways to heal a hurt is to get involved doing things for others. There is something healing about giving of oneself that I can't explain.
Finally, give yourself time, and don't be afraid to grieve. Grief is healthy and necessary, but eventually, you will move on.
2006-07-24 15:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, Bra... and nothing anyone can say to you will make the pain easier to deal with.
Only time can lessen the pain.
Go hang out with your mates and have a few laughs... eventually you'll find someone else!!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-07-24 15:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
to be honest u cant for a while
u will have to take your time and grief
and get over it with time
and eventually u will find out life goes on
and this person have gone with her life too
so eventually u will pass it and u never know
maybe u will find out your soulmate and fall in love again very soon
2006-07-24 15:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by dazzilingstarinthenight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet someone you like even more!! That's what I did and I got over the guy in less than a week!!
2006-07-24 15:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by pretty kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you use it as motivation/inspiration/determination, makes you stronger, makes you smarter, makes you more aware of yourself. Some of my best work has come from intense feelings of loss and grief
2006-07-24 15:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to make them hurt just as much.
2006-07-24 15:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by mrkitties420 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋