There is this girl that I really like, I cant stop thinking about her. Her best friend is my best friend. He really likes her but he isnt her type, and she tells him this when he gets fresh. I think I am more her type but I really dont want to mess up the friendship that we all share. I really like this girl, we have a lot in common and I think she likes me. She left her number in my car (I think it was an accident she was going to give it to a friend we were meeting but we ended up missing the meet and she left it in my car) I dont know if I shoul call her, or leave it alone? Its coming to the point where its hard for me to hang out with her when he is around and I dont hang out with her unless he is there. How should I talk to her and let my feelings come out, and possibly not mess up the friendship?
2006-07-24 08:25:39 · 17 answers · asked by johnny swanberg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ever think that she left the number there for ur use??
try calling her and just see how she's doing
tell her u found her number. don't make any dates or any promises... just call and say hi
maybe she'll suggest something...
or maybe you'll just get to know her better and things will look up from there.
u sound cool. hope this works for ya!!
2006-07-24 08:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by X box lady(who doesnt play Xbox) 2 · 21⤊ 1⤋
Hmm.
Call her and say "Hey, you left your phone number in my car. Just letting you know." Then from there, it's all yours. Take it where you want it. ;)
But if your friend really likes her.. then you have to decide whether you value a relationship or a friendship more. It's these kinds of things that split people up.
If you want my advice, I'd just try not to think about her until your friend stops liking her, then make your move. A friendship usually lasts longer than a relationship.
Good luck.
2006-07-24 15:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by omgoddenownerengorgenzownzownorp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur thinking a lot being a guy u should make the first move...n the number bit maybe she left it purposely u never know...anyways even if she left it by mistake so what give her a call n joke about how she's so forgetful and left her number in ur car n she shouldn't be so careless with everyone...try to make it funny girls like good sense of humor....so its worth giving a shot since Ur already friends talk to her tell her how u feel n if she's not comfortable tell her u won't force her n loose Ur friendship...seems like u really like her so i hope things work out for u two ....good luck :)
2006-07-24 15:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by dawink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, you sound like Harry Potter.
Okay, sorry.
Break it slowly, gently, and gradually. And if you let your (male) best friend know first, he won't feel like you're going behind his back and it'll give him time to adjust. Be firm, though. If he tells you flat-out to stay away from her, I'd remind him he's got no chance, you do, and make your case again. If, after more time, he really is not okay with you dating her, I wouldn't.
I mean, unless you really plan on being with her forever or you think she's THE GIRL, why ruin a friendship for a couple months of dating?
2006-07-24 15:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by twaberri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off i think you should try hanging out w/ her alone, just the two of you to see if the feelings are mutual by her actions. if ur playful w/ her see if she flirts back. if you still believe that she may like you give it a shot. life is full of taking risks, besides it will be worse to do nothing and always have that lingering question of What would have happened if u ever DID try something. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-24 15:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a tricky one. You have to understand that you and your best friend have probably been together for a while. If you really care about him you should just let him take the girl. If the girl means a whole lot to you I would just call her up. you should not be embarrest because it is just like someone on the dance floor. If you see someone dancing would you laugh at them. The answer is probably no. So you should not feel embarrest to call her if you really like her. Just like I said it is all up to you.
hang loose and let yourself free
meeker the gypsy
2006-07-24 15:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by meeker the gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to find all of this out from her, you will have to be alone with her and ask her if she likes you. Dont be the kind of person who has to let other people do their dirty work for them, you go up to her and be direct.
2006-07-24 15:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just call herand get closer as friends...thats not gonna ruin anything then once u guys know eachotheru can ask her out...or just tell her how u feel wether shes into u or not i dont think its gonna mess up the friendship
good luck!
2006-07-24 15:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was never really meeting a person, it was all an act to leave her number in your car.
2006-07-24 15:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like her ask her out on a date like a movie or something and have a nice talk ask tell her how u feel if she a good friend she will tell u the truth .
2006-07-24 15:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by jemmala2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋