What do I do?

Question

I caught my girlfriend in bed with another guy. Now she is begging me to take her back. What do I do?

Answer 1

leave the ***** find someone better and move on

Answer 2

Cheating is very bad not just for emotional reasons but for health reasons , she could pick up something and pass it to you . She has no respect for you and no regard for your or her own health. In general people who cheat are very selfish and yes they usually will do it again and again and again. Once they've done it its very easy and some people even pride themselves on cheating. I have been the cheater and the cheated, I did feel guilty after what I had done. I did it because I was angry with him , he was not a good guy and so I was looking for someone else to be in a relationship with. Sometimes cheating can strengthen a relationship because that person has had a taste of something else and then they find they like their tried and true flavor. In the end its up to you . Do you feel she is truly sorry , Can you trust her ? If you stay in a relationship where you don't trust someone it will drive you mad , every time they go some place you'll be thinking in your head where is she REALLY going. If you start questioning her it will lead to arguments and fights.

Answer 3

Since you are asking for advice here, I'm thinking that you just might want to give her another chance??
Have a heart to heart talk with her and sort things out between you two. There has to be a reason why she did what she did. Then go on from there. Good luck!

Answer 4

Its hard to let go of the person we love! I wont say ditch her,but consider this. Will you two be able to move on without resentments and trust issues? Will you now be overly paranoid about her cheating on you? If so the best thing may be to move on. If you feel she is sincere about her apology give her a second chance.Sometimes people dont realize what they have until they are about to lose it!

Answer 5

**** her u can get a girl that will treat u better and maybe respect you and not!!! sleep with another guy. if i was u i wouldn't take her back tell her that u have another girlfriend or tell her that once u do it once she will probably do it again.

Answer 6

ask her if she will watch you have sex with another gitrl, than ask her how she feels afterwards! I don't think she'll want to get back with you either! Better yet, call her and tell her to come over at a certain time, than when she walks in, make sure your with someone else..My motto is . "what comes around, goes around"

Answer 7

Give her another chance. Everyone deserves a second chance, but explain to her that you are only giving her a second chance because you think she deserves it and if something else happens you aren't going back.

Answer 8

Hit her in the mouth with a ball peen hammer. That way if you break her jaw, she should stop begging for awhile.

Answer 9

That sucks.. Honestly in everyones first opinion... They probably wood say you should leave her no matter if she's beggin... But in my opinion i believe in second chances... My man cheated on me once but took him back and everyone hated that i did but it wasn't there decision it was mine and I have been with him for six years now.

Answer 10

if u really are considering what to do then you must still kind of like her...but what she did was horrible. dont take her back. move on. no one deserves to be cheated on unless they have done it before. so hence, if you have cheated on her before and still like her then try and work things out. if you havent, then find someone else.

Answer 11

if you have an ounce of dignity, an ounce or pride or any sort of self-respect, you'll tell the b i t c h, yes, tell the B I T C H to go to hell........then go out and find your own fling just to get even.

i'd also beat the hell out of the dude, too.