i am 21 he is 42
2006-07-24 08:20:15 · 17 answers · asked by cynthia0767 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In your case, yes.
I have no problem with age differences really. But a man who wants you at 21 is getting the much better deal. You only get to be young, desirable, and wanted by everyone once!!!!! Don't give it up on an older guy. Even if he has money and he is secure and he treats you well right now.
You will look back later and know...that the young girl is always wanted by everyone. No matter what. But the young guy only wants the young girl. Don't waste your best years on an older guy.
That is my view,...and I did the opposite and married an older guy young. I regret it every single day. Makes life harder later for you. Enjoy your youth...date the older guy when you are old.
2006-07-24 08:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I don't thing age has anythign at all to do with a relationship.I have been in my relationship that I am in now for 6 yrs ,and he is 13yrs older than me.We also have 4 kids and get along just great.
2006-07-24 15:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by lonelynoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, well i am 21 and my husband is 23 so i dont have much of a differents, but my mother -in-law was 16 and my father-in-law was like 22 when they got merried (i no i dont thank thats good)but as long as the age is not braking the law its ok i guess
2006-07-24 15:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your thought patterns are different when there is that big of an age difference, ya know? you might want to go out to the club and party, get drunk have a good time, come in at 3am.. but your boyfriend might want to sit at home and rent a movie and not stay out. see what i mean? it CAN be done, just has to be with the right people...
2006-07-24 15:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by teamsleep05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes age does. Because each of us makes decisions based on previous experiences. Someone with more experiences is going to make different choices than someone with little experience.
Does that mean it can't work? NO. Just takes more compromising.
2006-07-24 15:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think age has anything to do with it. It is just a number. You love someone for who they are inside and what they mean to you not for how old they are.
2006-07-24 15:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO age is just a number, well thats what i think. and if you both really like or love each other it suchent matter your age differnts. just be happy together, be happy that you both have each other. best wishes to ya!!!
2006-07-24 15:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think its gross but you probably want/need someone more mature then guys your age and you want someone who has status in stuff like owns his own house and drives a decent car and has money of his own to spend on you and knows what he likes to do in bed and can probably cook good too.
i say go for it if you can get over the wrinkles lol. good for you!
2006-07-24 15:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah when it come to a 10 year old to a 16 year old, but i guess in your case it doesn't matter.your both adults to you age anit nutting but a number.
2006-07-24 15:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT at all. I am44 and all my girl friends have always been younger. I guss its because im still feel young at heart. my lastest is 23.
2006-07-24 15:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋