Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and 2 months. Now that I am outah school,I am working. Theres this guy at work that flirts with me non stop, and naturally, i flirt back. i still love my boyfriend, but now i dont know what to do! help!!!
2006-07-24 08:06:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and 2 months. Now that I am outah school,I am working. Theres this guy at work that flirts with me non stop, and naturally, i flirt back. Also, my co-worker knows i have a boyfriend. i still love my boyfriend alot, but now i dont know what to do! help!!!
2006-07-24 08:22:13 · update #1
if you see it as a threat to you and your boyfriend and your thinking about what if's and him when your with your boyfriend you might wanna tone it down with mr coworker or reconsider things with your man. but if its just harmless and fun then who cares.
2006-07-24 08:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all he just flirts and he didn't ask u out yet so u don't need to do any thing secondly how u can say i love m y boyfriend when u flirt around ? if this guy (co-worker) asks u out on a date u would ruin ur A YEAR RELATIONSHIP n would go for this guy so u can say u love ur bf? if u wanna go for this one just break up right away n go for the next
2006-07-24 08:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. What guy makes you feel goood? You JUST met this guy at work. Who knows, maybe he's a player and he has himself a girlfriend! Is there ANY negatives about your recent boyfriend? Think ahead. How would you live a life with the new guy? Your boyfriend? Does your boyfriend have time for you? He might be in the same situation as you. Who knows-- he might have a killer himself at work. I'd stick with your own boyfriend...unless he is totally *out* sometimes.
2006-07-24 08:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling.I have had to deal with that kind of stuff alot.But right now you neeed to talk with your co worker and get to know him better but nothing more.Give it time.See if you really like him.And if you then explain to your boyfriend. he should understand.But if you love your boyfriend alot just be carefull.Don't make a mistake ,cause it will hurt in the future.I did the same.I dated a guy for a year and then met a guy and he was just so hot and intelligent and everything,but I just got to know him better after a while and he never loved me as much as the other guy.It just never worked out for us and I thought of my ex the whole time I was with him.Only it wasn't possible for me to get back with him.
2006-07-24 08:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by Uknwn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing that i dont get is that you said "naturally I flirt back." thats not natural. either you dont like your b.f. nemore or u should tell the co-worker outright that you have a boyfriend already. how would you like it he was flirting with some other girl and he said "it's only natural". so my advice is to stop flirting or dump ur b.f. and go after ur coworker. otherwise thats how chicks start to get the rep that they are a s l u t.
2006-07-24 08:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by joker222798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop flirting. flirting doesnt have to be "natural". stop flirting(and yes you can do it) and he will probably take the hint and stop flirting back. if you like this guy than do your boyfriend a favor and call it quits. no one wants a cheater. if you dont like this guy and he keeps flirting with you just down right tell him to cut it out. it may take a couple times (it has for me) but eventually he should stop.
2006-07-24 08:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Independent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your Boy friend than there would be no issue of ambiguity. My opinion is keep flirting if you like!
If you dont like it at all tell the flirt that you are engaged and do not want any sort of relation with him.
2006-07-24 08:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by kaps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally you flirt back? Huh? Why do you do that if you love your boyfriend? [you say you do, but your actions prove otherwise]
You should do the right thing and break-up with the boyfriend....and the sooner, the better.
2006-07-24 08:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? Your young and not married. Flirt happy! Theres gona be sooooo many times you will flirt. So what. If you can, have fun and do it while you can! Just be a good girl and dont cheat! Its fun being a girl sometimes!
2006-07-24 08:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is relatively harmless as long as you both understand that it's not meant to be serious.
If you like this guy, break up with your boyfriend first.
2006-07-24 08:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you quit flirting with this guy, you have to address why you were.
Are you bored of your current relationship? Either spice that up and save it, or let him go and flirt with whomever, wherever, whenever.
2006-07-24 08:11:05 · answer #11 · answered by i wear one button suit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋