Ok. At the gym I go to there is a black guy my age (22) who works there who is a personal trainer. I have never hired him but he is very friendly and always come over to help me with the machines, and with advice. Although I ussually don't give guys the time of day at the gym (I'm there to work out), I have always been nice to him because of his outgoing personality and--I admit it--his muscular bod. He's ripped and not bad to look at! Anyway, the other day he comes over and starts saying motivational things while I'm working my legs. Something catches my eye, and I realize that the guy is getting physically excited while watching me. You know how workout clothes are..I could see that the man is blessed. He kind of slinked away quickly and has been shy with me ever since. The whole thing--from his size to his shyness--was a huge turn-on. I can't get it out of my mind. My question is this: Does size matter and is sex more exciting when it is interracial. Does it add a certain spice?
2006-07-24 07:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Honestly, who cares? If you are attracted to the guy and that was a turn on...go for it!
2006-07-24 07:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Meredith L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Size matters if the guy's really small, after he gets to about 5" or larger it doesn't matter as long as he knows what he's doing. I'm assuming that you are pretty inexperienced if you're asking this question.
As to "is sex more exciting when you're interracial", it can be more exciting if you only look at this guy as a race and not a person, and get yourself all excited about "oooh, it's a black guy!", but that's not the way to go about it. This guy doesn't want you to want him because he's black, he wants you to want him because he's hot and nice and helps you while you work out. So if you like him, go for it, but if you think it'd be cool to do him because he's a big black guy, leave him in peace.
2006-07-24 07:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by cay_damay 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's all a question of personal taste. I hope it works out. I wouldn't mention the other day but maybe say hi or hey, haven't seen you as much lately miss your motivation or something like that. Just to let him know that you are still interested and that his obvious arrousal was not as serious an issue as he might think.
Oh, and size doesn't really matter but it doesn't hurt either if he's on the larger side of things. Hopefully he knows how to work it..... I'd say go for it but use protection.
2006-07-24 07:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by PaganPoetess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
although this is not a hair question more like a relationship personal question i will still answer it....i agree that black men are really sexy lol as far as the size it shouldn't matter as long as he knows how to work it ...maybe you should ask him to help you with a exercise that requires alot of bending lol
2006-07-24 08:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Race shouldn't matter at all, sex, size, whatever, it is what works for you and makes you happy. If your interested in him you should tell him or try to give him clues next time your there.
2006-07-24 07:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a little strange just screw him and find out for yourself...Use protection!!!!!
2006-07-24 07:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋