This is for male and female: My wife think I'm sick because I love to have sex almost every night am I sick?

Answer 1

As a retired mental health professional whose Practicum (Thesis Substitute ) was entitled "Male Sexuality", I can say that it depends on exactly what you define as "sex". Kinda like how ol' Billy Boy defined having sexual intercourse with Monica Lewinsky. What specific behaviors do you include in "sex" with your wife. Also, and most important here is whether you are "having sex" with her as a matter of course or habit, or because the two of you engage in such interaction, verbal or physical, that leads to sexual intercourse voluntarily by both of you. By your question, that answer would seemingly be "no". That doesn't mean that you're sick and she's healthy. Quite the contrary. It means you're different, and for now, you need to go to an unbiased counselor (meaning not a feminazi or a womanizer either one) and get your issues worked out. I've had extensive work in this area, but, like I said, I'm retired early, and loving it. So pick your counselor carefully. All to many of us have "hidden agendas" in our counseling that we refuse, one way or another, to reveal to you but will definitely effect your counseling and it's outcome. I must say, the odds of getting a counselor truly knowledgeable about male sexuality is very very slim. Many women, including women counselors, think that they know about men in just about any way you can imagine when, in fact, most of them, including the women counselors, can't even spell "men" correctly, so watch carefully who you get as a counselor. It could make a mess for you. I do wish you the best in that since I'm fully aware of the treacheries committed in the name of "good mental health". Not too many counselors, very few in fact, really know what that is. God Bless you.

Answer 2

Well, what can I say? Seems that you're not together for too long, are you?
Anyway, a woman doesn't need sex each day. Make her sure that you love her even without having sex until you drop.
Give her the feeling that you need and love her. Do her a favour and keep your big thing inside your undies. If you can't hold it then you better leave for the bathroom for a while and have some solo - fun there.
You can show her even without having an intercourse each day that you respect and honour her.
And to let you know - you are not sick just too horny. Maybe your testosteron level is too high. After being married for some time it normaly goes down to 2 or 3 times a week - believe me.

Answer 3

Hardly. The desire for sexual expression with one's spouse in marriage is normal and potentially a lot of fun (especially the more often you do it). The roadblock you might be running into is that you two haven't set up expectations of each other sexually. And there's a lot more going with sex than what goes on in the bedroom!

Does your wife know you love her no matter what? If all sex becomes is a mechanical process, then it's not going to be fulfilling for either one of you. Do you SHOW your wife you love her, through little attentions (i.e. say "I love you") as well as the big chores that you'll do when she asks without grumbling?

Speaking as a married man myself, I'm not always good at the second part. It feels like my wife and I are revved at two different speeds when it comes to intimacy sometimes; the key is to take advantage of the moment (and carve the time out of the day for it), and make it happen! Go in with high expectations, but not unrealistic ones. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Frequency of sex is a very personal thing. Some people are happy with once every six months, some a couple times a day or six days a week and twice on Sunday. Frequency tends to drop off as a relationship gets older, but should never QUIT entirely.

Whatever is pleasant and comfortable for BOTH spouses is the best compromise for any couple. Talk about it. Communicate.
Maybe she has some preconceived notion about it from HER parents. Maybe she thinks its dirty. Again, talk about it.

The OTHER thing that you might consider is that maybe you are not quite as pleasing to HER needs as you should be. Women that SERIOUSLY enjoy what you are doing tend to want to do that just a little more often
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You are not sick, just normal.

Answer 5

I don't think you are sick I think it is normal. I think the problem is that she thinks your sick because you probably make her sick since you want to have it every night. Choke you chicken man give her a rest.

Answer 6

you are not at all sick. your desire is normal. but try to explore reasons why she is not interested in sex. perhaps due to frigidity, she may not showing in sex another reason is women after giving birth to children lose interest in sex.make attempts to come closer to her mind rather than her body alone showing soft pornographic pictures and movies may to some extent solve your problem. if it still fails better contact a counselor. all the best.

Answer 7

No! My husband likes to like 4 times a week. Ilike to every night. Everyones different.

Answer 8

R U kidding me? Of course you are not sick. Wish I had a husband who wanted it every night. U R awesome. Is she ok?

Answer 9

No that just makes u a guy and also shows that you wanna show some affection to ur wife.

Answer 10

No. You're just Horny. That's all. Everyone has a different appetite. You just have a mixed marriage. That's all. It should go away by the time your 50.