say u didn't mean it but u said it to the person only b/c u were mad. is that a reason to break up with someone over something u said
2006-07-24 07:00:52 · 19 answers · asked by Amanda R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would break up with them
2006-07-24 07:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a reason to break up with someone. Even if you didn't mean it, it's still abusive language. Everytime you get angry and say something you don't mean, you're hurting someone else.
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. A person may get away from the verbal abuser as fast as they can for fear of it happening again. Probably a good idea in most cases.
There are times we all say things that we don't mean. But we don't get to choose how someone else reacts to what we say.
2006-07-24 14:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Brooke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that causes a break up, then the relationship wasn't very strong to begin with. Although it's an ugly thing to say to anyone, people do sometimes say things in anger or when upset that they don't mean...they say hurtful things they wish they could take back, but cannot...f*ck off isn't a breakup offense by itself, especially if it's not the normal mode of communication used, and an apology occured...
2006-07-24 14:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on the reason one is up set are sad for , i think the first thing would to be to tell are to ask the other one if theres a probllem are if theres a reason why ones sad , if they come clean then decide if will contiune on with the relationshipe do'nt insisste of any thing are accuse the other , cause if does only says and proves that your a lieaer and a player .
2006-07-24 14:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that'll be a stupid reason to break up just cuz you got into a fight and yell at each other. couples fight all the time. I admit that word is kinda strong. what you need to do is sit down and have a talk about it when you both calmed down. Compromise, make a promise to each other that no matter how angry you are, you won't use any strong language, and help each other get rid of that bad habbit.
2006-07-24 14:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think a person who would dump a person over that isn't cut out for relationships. They should be able to acknowledge the fact that you were angry when you said it, that you don't mean it, and the two people involved should be able to move past it. That's how a healthy functioning relationship works. It does help though when the person who said it apologizes.
2006-07-24 14:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Zarango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in life, there are no "take-backs" so be careful what is said and give a heart-felt appology if you truly regret the words you used in anger. some people have things from their past in mind that are triggered by certain words that you may not know about, so to them, it may be a good reason. even though i believe anything in a heated argument can be resolved with good communication.
2006-07-24 14:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by mello83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no, because some of us say stupid things when our temper takes over us. haven't you ever said something that you didnt mean??? dont take it seriously unless he says it when you 2 r fine, then THAT would be a problem and u should totally kick him 2 the curb. Good luck!!
2006-07-24 14:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all.If that person really cares,they will know you were mad.I've told my husband it was over more times than I can count.We are still together.It just made the love stronger.
2006-07-24 14:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're asking that question then you're not ready to be in a serious relationship ..
a fight, & exchanging of words isn't a reason to break up with someone IF you love them.
otherwise, you're kidding yourself with even trying.
2006-07-24 14:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by Arii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋